I have been asked by many men on this site to give a little bit more information about me.. so here goes:
This probably fits me the best :" Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor each morning the Devil says, "oh crap she's up!"
Or more importantly in relationships: "A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself -- to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.” - Leo F. Buscaglia
My friends would describe me as 'unique', they may mean 'weird, eccentric' but they love me too much to say it to my face :) I have a deep sense of integrity and honesty, am playful, love to laugh, sensual, intelligent and can make a great omelet! ( ok, honesty clause here, that is 1 of 6 items that I can actually cook, but I love exploring hole in the wall restaurants or 5 star places and everything in between). I am not your average woman, not said arrogantly but truthfully. Growing up in poverty, I left home at the tender of age of 12 and have worked tirelessly around the world to help people, whether it's overseeing women's literacy programs, Make A Wish, Girl Scouts, etc, it didn't matter, my path and goal is to be of service. I started my company 18 years ago and am finding that now that the kids are grown, company is going strong, it's time for me to find that special someone to play, explore and go on the next adventure with. I'm a world traveler and have been for 30 years. Went to Brazil in March of this year and went to China last year, bringing home Clay, who you can see below.. Yes, he came directly from the Emperors tomb and he's pretty awesome and a wee bit intimidating :) My hobbies...Quantum physics, metaphysics, archaeology, fishing, fixing cars, relaxing on my boat, exploring another part of the world, enjoy music other than country and rap. I am very laid back, don't believe in drama, I am a very specific communicator. No yelling or silent treatment from me. I believe that everything, no matter how uncomfortable, can be spoken about with respect.
I am searching for someone who doesn't 'need' me in his life, but 'wants' me in his life as I am looking for the same. I am looking for a professional, playful, sensual, honest, intelligent man who is very secure and independent with who he is as a person. I stay in good shape and I ask that you be also. While I appreciate the younger men who have written, I have no interest in being a 'cougar', nor any interest in being a sugar momma and I absolutely refuse to date someone who is the same age as my sons which is mid 30's:),I was 5'8" by the time I was 10 and had to live with being called an Amazon.. I know there are scores of men shorter than me who are awesome, but if you aren't 5'10" or taller, I just won't be able to go there, and I truly don't mean to be disrespectful, but I won't date you, it's my 'stuff' and truly is not a reflection on you. If you write me with a " call me" and your phone number, I will ignore you.... whew, got that all out of the way! :). . There truly is no drama in my corner and I ask that this be the same with you. Life is just too short to sweat the small stuff!