Okay......I am working on getting myself into shape ****UPDATE**** I have lost 75 lbs since 12/1/15.....I am still working at it and I want to lose another 40-50 lbs by the end of May (my youngest son is getting married in Oct.& this Mom is going to be ready to celebrate & DANCE!) I had foot surgery & was very afraid that sitting with my foot elevated for most of the day I would regain everything I had lost & I have maintained my 75 loss & I am moving forward for phase 2! I am very determined when I set my mind to something I can achieve it..AFTER ALL "I AM THE MASTER OF MY OWN DESTINY!" I wish my foot was healed because I love to dance and I know I have been told that any Achilles injury or surgery takes a very long time to heal....I had surgery on 4/6/16 my heel was detached and I had a split tendon in my ankle and they had to pull my Achilles up and over my ankle & up the back of my leg about 3" and it still isn't healed and it is keeping my off of the dance floor which really makes me unhappy...I love to dance!! DANCING IS GREAT EXERCISE AND I WANT TO GET BACK ON THAT DANCE FLOOR! I can dance maybe 2 songs before my foot is hurting! So I really want this to heal.....I am patient, I can wait! :0)
well I am starting the next chapter of my "book of life" hoping that I will find someone that would like to be
next to me for the 2nd half. I am down to earth, laid back and I try not to sweat the small stuff....life is just to short for that!
I have a tattoo on my leg that says "LIVE, LAUGH, LVE"......which translate to Live WELL, Laugh OFTEN, Love MUCH. I believe we should all live like this!
I grew up fishing and going up north to our family camp. I spent a lot of time at the beach, salt water fishing and even digging clams, lol guess I was a bit of a Tom boy but I love smelling and dressing nice for the man in my life......I am still part Tomboy (30% Tomboy & 70% Girly Girl) that is the part that would still go fishing or camping and loves to ride (motorcycles) & go to the stock car races! I love to go out and listen to live music! ( bands at the local biker bar) I love to dance & I Love to travel!!
I have been to Florida 5 times since 6/2013 (I actually spent 1 night @ Cocoa before a cruise 9/2012 & that was my 1st taste of Florida beaches! AMAZING!) I have since spent most of my vacation time on the Gulf coast (Clearwater to Sarasota) I am not a snow lover....I hate cold weather! I spent most of the last 2 summer's in Florida (2014 & 2015) I survived the summer I could survive any time of year. I wouldn't mind relocating to Florida & I do see why a lot of people from up North finally make the move! I spent 5 weeks down there during the summer of 2015 & it got pretty lonely with no one to talk to ( I am a very social person so I did end up befriending the clerk @ the Days Inn-Sarasota, she & I are still in contact on Facebook & I extended my stay because I loved Anna Maria Island!
Moving to the Gulfcoast of Florida would be great, but It's not a deal breaker I could be happy up here in the winter as long as I have someone to keep my feet warm in bed! Lol
WHO I AM LOOKING FOR:
I am looking to meet someone that will be my best friend, my lover, my other half-my partner in crime so to speak. I believe in honesty, not into lies or cheating, never cheated never will, I am a one man woman for life! Not into playing games or creating DRAMA! Seeking a man that is compassionate, one that will treat me the same way I treat him, one that has my back as I would always have his, I am a loving, caring, giving person and I deserve to have someone in my life that will cherish me, as I will cherish him. Not looking for a heavy/regular drinker.....I am a social drinker and can enjoy myself without the need to get drunk or to even drink at all! Not looking to be with a smoker either, I quit 7 years ago.
I THINK IF YOU HAVE A PICTURE OF YOU DRINKING A PABST BLUE RIBBION 99% SURE YOU HAVE A DRINKING PROBLEM! I DON'T NEED TO TALK TO YOU...IF YOU HAVE A DRINK IN EVERY PICTURE Y O U POST YOU ARE POSSUBLY MORE THAN A CASUAL DRINKER...I DON'T NEED TO TALK TO YOU!!
I uploaded pictures of some of my tattoos....I have 6 of them and when I am dressed (jeans & T-shirt) they are all hidden. I would never get any below the elbow or on my neck or face. All of my tattoos have meaning to me and I believe they are tasteful....well I did have my eyeliner tattooed on & boy that hurt like hell! No more raccoon eyes when I wake up! lol I also have a nose piercing, and 3 holes in each ear maybe this is a turn off for some guys but I wouldn't judge a person solely by what is on the outside..the way a person talks to you and treats you is more important. I know we all have our own preferences, like that i am not attracted to guys with long hair....I never have been and I never will be so maybe tattoos are a turn off for guys but I would rather be up front than to have someone think I was trying to deceive them. Just figured I would put that out there and since I am a woman I like color in my tattoos and I know some people like the black and white....they are nice too but I prefer color. I have seen some amazing tattoos on people out there and I am not saying that some people don't go overboard because they do....but I think to each his own!
I will be getting one more tattoo, a memorial tattoo in honor of my brother who passed 5/26/16 it will be a Blue Orchid.....I have to either go back to my tattoo guy who did 5 of mine & my cover up he is in Winter Haven, FL) or I need to find the right artist to do it......... would love to find the guy who did most of my brothers ink!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
FIRST DATE??? I guess this is something we can both decide on.
I love to go & see live local bands or going to shoot some pool (i can laugh @ myself) Like I said something we could discuss before actually having our first date.
I only meet someone in public for a first date........I don't see why some guys think it is OK OR EXPECT A WOMAN THAT DOESN'T KNOW THEM & HAS NEVER MET THEM TO COME TO THEIR PLACE OR WANT TO MEET THE WOMAN AT HER PLACE!! THESE GUYS ACTUALLY GET AN ATTITUDE!!
PLEASE THINK HOW YOU WOULD WANT A SINGLE SISTER TO BE TREATED BY A MAN!