First of all, SKIP ME & MOVE ON if you: are not interested in having a serious monogamous relationship/only looking to have sex or “just hang out,” you are currently in a relationship, you have children, you are friends with your ex or someone that you've had sex with, you feel like you “need” to be in a relationship (usually to fill a void), past unresolved issues negatively affect your relationships with others, you're looking to explore dating different people (mostly because you don't know what you want in a partner yet, or because you're still in love with your ex), your passive aggressive, not direct/have poor communication skills/avoid dealing with your problems, you lack appropriate social skills, you have developmental delay or mental illness, if you've ever taken advantage of a female in any way/stalked someone ever, you don't respect females, you've cheated on a partner, you don't accept rejection lightly or at all, you smoke anything, take any illegal drugs, drink alcohol frequently/visit the bar frequently, have an addiction, someone has called Law Enforcement on you, and/or have a criminal background.
For the small percentage of decent men that it narrowed down to, read on..
Currently improving my “domestic” skills
Thoughtful, caring, loyal
Optimistic, easy going
Quiet/reserved, but become talkative if I'm comfortable with you,
Or if I'm passionate about a topic
Likes to laugh and joke around
Semi-retired from the “party scene”- No night owl/now mostly homebody, now into
“family friendly” activities like movies, bowling, board games, etc.
Open minded to try new foods/restaurants/activities and pretending to be a tourist
Infrequently does physical activity- so if you are looking for someone to snowboard or play sports with, then we are not a match!
Although, I do like to go to games/watch baseball & football (Yes, I understand the sports and know the teams!)
I enjoy Star Trek & Marvel! Would like to go to Comic-Con one day!
My expectations of you include, but are not limited to:
Currently in a career (and have college degree)
Loyal- believe in being in an exclusive monogamous relationship
Honest- never sneaky or “mysterious”
Masculine/ hetero- do not have my "Gay-dar" go off!
“Old fashioned”- family oriented, has respectable values
Self-less/empathetic: enjoys keeping his partner happy
Patient & positive (even during rough times)
Good communicator & listener
Comfortable w/ silence (someone who talks non-stop is a turn-off)
Do not have a female as a best friend or 3+ female friends (even though I'm secure with myself-- I should be your only partner in crime!)
Mentally mature/responsible, but still a kid at heart
Not vegan/vegetarian/ or food selective!
Prefer Caucasian, Hispanics, and some Asian (American ones w/ no accents & can speak English effortlessly only)
At least 5'7” and not considered obese..
NO "CATFISH"- BE TRUTHFUL!
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Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A nice meet-up where we would be able to talk and see if there's good chemistry.