Ok so someone once told me something about POF, they said that its quite unfortunate because people are just people and by doing the online thing you miss connections with a person you might otherwise have with them. For example, say if you bumped into her on the street and she saw your face when you realized how pretty she was, or at a coffee shop, maybe a glance from across the room because she likes the way you carry yourself.....or even yes maybe meeting at a bar one night dancing till your hearts content, waiting for the moment she texts you back the next day. And yet we still try this POF thing, this gives us our sense of control over love (a very uncontrollable thing) without really putting ourselves out there and making ourselves available. This is what gives us the opportunity to keep our options open and with that pulls our attention away from something that might be so unbelievably fantastic that's right in front of us.
"don't make someone a priority when they only make you an option" I can not say i have followed this in the past which clearly i was setting myself up for disaster......so....all i ask and all I'm looking for in the end is someone who believes I'm his priority just as much as he is mine.
If you have gotten this far you continue to read for two reasons .
1. This is sad and you feel pity for me. In which case don't worry im a big girl and ill be just fine.
2. You understand and know exactly what im talking about. If this is you maybe we will bump into each other on the street and find a connection.
I will not clip your wings....i will make you want to fly.