I am the type of person who always has to be progressing in some way. I take pride in staying in shape. I dont take it to extreme, but it is important to me. I am also very successful in my career and do very well for myself. I work hard, but also try not to make it my life. No kids, never married, and living life the way I feel I should be. I am simply single because I choose not to settle, and lets be honest.... This day and age the dating pool is riddled with turds. It is what it is and I am completely happy with living the single life. Possibly ready to settle down, but not ready to settle.