Something other then coffee. Dinner, Drinks, Dancing and top it off with a red box movie and body massages at your place. P.S. No women still living with their parents and absolutely no dull dates i.e. this means sitting around drinking coffee. Please, Please no coffee dates its chicks way of taking a guy to a low class place i.e. going to Starbucks, Moose Coffee, et al. on a date (typically suggested by a woman) is equal to a guy taking a woman to McDonalds for their first date. Coffee dates are not real dates, sure you can talk but you can talk anywhere including over the phone. Get a real date and agree on something better.