After a year and a half of POF I have met a handful of really nice people that just didn't work out and a whole bunch of people that make me question what the hell has happened to my generation. I cannot believe the amount of men that live at home with their parents permanently, have no job, no car, don't take care of their kids, and who are just A-ok that way. That's great for you. You have nothing to offer me. Not because I'm a gold digger, but because I work my butt of at the state to take care of my daughter and have my own stuff and I don't need a relationship where someone isn't doing those same things in life. So POF.. I give up on you.
In my world, a first date means you plan it and invite me. Then during the date you offer to pay, and I say no you don't have to and then you insist. If I end up paying we don't ever go back out again. NOT because I'm a gold digger... but because you are a real man and you are serious about really wanting to be with someone. You don't trash talk the mother of your children, it makes me wonder what you have done to her and your children. It also leads me to believe you like drama and I don't like it at all.