******** UPDATE************** NEW YEAR>>>>>NEW STUFFFS!!! (oh and ps...if I favorited someone with out sending a message, that is because somewhere, or some point of time, I inadvertently messaged someone, or did something that prevents me from messaging you. I guess it is my way of saying HI, I am interested, cuz I can't send a message) ************UPDATE******* continues down there v!!
Here is is out on the table. I have been through so many different dating sites, I have forgotten which ones I have done. I have paid out more money then I care to admit. Sucker..NO...have I met some wonderful women.....YES.....and from a few sites that would surprise you. So far POF has already aforded me the opportunity to talk with some amazing women on here. And the site is free! Go figure! I am honestly sick of the games that are played. YES women!! You do it as well. The number of times I have been stood up.....and ON MY BIRTHDAY no less! If you are not going to show up......don't say you will! If you say..."yeah ok that sounds great, we should soon!" and then we never hear from you, or you blow us off next time we see each other....WTF. Yes there are guys out there that are ***holeS! It sucks for the good guys! I am a good guy, I am an honest, I have a job, car, and my Houdini. I don't live with my parents (but I do rent out their house) I don't have issues...and I FRIGGIN HATE drama! I would love to find a best friend who will compliment me, and be my companion. I am leaving the rest...yep there might be some inuendos....but that is me. I am 100% corn fed and raised in Utard. Yep....I am one, and nope...I had one. Only want one. I am not crazy!
I love everything outdoors. Hiking, camping, playing sports, and yard work. Tall, dark, and handsome. I am dominate in some aspects, and in others I can be a big soft tedy bear! I do enjoy cooking, and have patted myself on the back lately. Spaghetti sauce, and home brewed beef stew are some of the accomplishments....chili is next.
I have a taste for just about everything. I would be a jack of all trades, and a master of some, such as working on cars, computers, and home repair. I have a job that takes me all over the state on a weekly basis. Yes the miles can wear on the ass. I have swam in both the Pacific, and Atlantic ocean, and been to both ends of the country.
I love all kinds of music, and have been known to sing in a choir. It all depends on the mood. Some days are 80's, some days can be classical. Most of the time it is rock or country. I do enjoy going out to a comedy club, when they are around, or play the occasional game of pool.
What I am looking for? I am looking for a woman that is not inhibited, is open to explore, and knows how to speak her mind tactfully. I don't expect you to like everything I do, but if you like sports, playing, and rooting for Saturday/Sunday Football, that is a big bonus. If you are into racing, that is just as good. If you are willing to go out and golf, or join me in playing indoor soccer.....then lets go. All at the same time, if you are just there to watch, or drive the cart...that is all good as well. I want her to be secure in who she is, and not have to be the center of attention all the time. I would love it if during the day we are playing paint ball, and at night we get all decked out for a night on the town. I love to cuddle, and PDA.....so be ready to throw on the pj's and cuddle up for a movie, or have the dress ready for some fun. Tall. I am 6'3" and would love someone that is tall. Not a deal breaker, but come on. Average, or less. Honestly, if it is not HWP, it will never work. I am not going to settle, nor should you. If you don't like what you see, how can you be attracted to it all the time. Be honest with yourself. PLEASE!!!!! I really hate letting someone down by telling them it won't work, or I am not attracted.
I am a lot more then this description, could ever get. I am not 50 shades of f$$ed up, I am 50 shades of fun! I know you won't be disappointed if you gve me a shot.