********* UPDATE**************!! KCCO!!!!! It is what it is. First of all, I want to honestly and truly thank the women that I have met through this site. You are awesome, and it has been a pleasure and honor meeting some of you. However, I have still to find the one I am looking for. I have a good idea of who she is, and what she likes, but it has been a long journey. Some I may have let go prematurely, but if there is that nagging thing in the back of your mind, how will it go away? I will not settle for something I can not be truly happy with. For that, I am sorry if I may have hurt someone.
PLEASE I have worked hard, lost weight, and in the process of toning things up. Because of this, I am picky in what I am looking for. No that is not a stick figure either. I know what I am attracted to. I am 6'3" and would love someone that is tall. Not a deal breaker, but come on. This next part may be harsh, but it is something I am just not attracted to. "bbw, or large" are NOT something I am attracted to. "Curvy, maybe, average, Ok, but be real with yourself! Honestly, if it is not HWP, it will never work. I am not going to settle, nor should you. If you don't like what you see, how can you be attracted to it all the time. Be honest with yourself. PLEASE!!!!! I really hate letting someone down by telling them it won't work, or I am not attracted.
I love everything outdoors. Hiking, camping, playing sports, and yard work. Tall, dark, and handsome. I am dominate in some aspects, and in others I can be a big soft teddy bear! I do enjoy cooking, and have patted myself on the back lately. Spaghetti sauce, Chili, and home brewed beef stew are some of the accomplishments.. Chili was awesome...it would have won an award had it been entered into a contest!!!
I have a taste for just about everything. I would be a jack of all trades, and a master of some, such as working on cars, computers, and home repair. I currently working at an automotive dealership as a technician, and just about to reach my aniversary. My previous job of 7 years, had me driving all over the state on a weekly basis. I'm tired of driving, and yes the miles can wear on the ass. I have swam in both the Pacific, and Atlantic ocean, and been to both ends of the country.
I love all kinds of music, and have been known to sing in a choir. It all depends on the mood. Some days are 80's, some days can be classical. Most of the time it is rock or country. I do enjoy going out to a comedy club, when they are around, or play the occasional game of pool.
What I am looking for? I am looking for a woman that is not inhibited, is open to explore, and knows how to speak her mind tactfully. I don't expect you to like everything I do, but if you like sports, playing, and rooting for Saturday/Sunday Football, that is a big bonus. If you are into racing, that is just as good. If you are willing to go out and golf, or join me in playing indoor soccer.....then lets go. All at the same time, if you are just there to watch, or drive the cart...that is all good as well. I want her to be secure in who she is, and not have to be the center of attention all the time. I would love it if during the day we are playing paint ball, and at night we get all decked out for a night on the town. I love to cuddle, and PDA.....so be ready to throw on the pj's and cuddle up for a movie, or have the dress ready for some fun. Keep the sexy going. I love it when she wants to wear my t-shirt, or wants to walk around all day wearing just skin. Have fun with what you have.
I am a lot more then this description, could ever get. I am not 50 shades of f$$ed up, I am 50 shades of fun! I know you won't be disappointed if you give me a shot.
Now.....for the other stuff, I am honestly sick of the games that are played. YES women!! You do it as well. The number of times I have been stood up.....and ON MY BIRTHDAY no less! If you are not going to show up......don't say you will! If you say..."yeah ok that sounds great, we should soon!" and then we never hear from you, or you blow us off next time we see each other....WTF. Yes there are guys out there that are ***holeS! It sucks for the good guys! I am a good guy, I am an honest, I have a job, car, and my Houdini. I don't live with my parents,I don't have issues...and I FRIGGIN HATE drama! I would love to find a best friend who will compliment me, and be my companion.
If you made it to the end of this...congratulations! I thank you for putting up with my bull sh*(T. I just want to be your best friend and companion. Give me a try, see how it goes. What have you got to lose?