In every person duality exists, and I am no different. I believe that the juxtapostions of life more fully highlight each point of view. So, I am oppinionated but willing to listen. I love to read, write - be mellow - but, I also love going out with my friends for long nights of drinking and fun. My life right now is centered on school and work, on growing my list of experiences and opening my mind to new thoughts and ideas. However, I like stability and peace and strive to have both in my home life. I love animals, but people don't usually rank as high. The one exception to that rule is my friends. They are my world and I adore eachone of them for the unique beauty they bring to my life. In a man I would like a friend and partner, because ultimately, I believe, it is the bonds of friendship that fortify the love felt.
Honestly dating is intimadating. It can be awkward and lame. However, to circumvent the negative things, I think a first date should be a learning experience for both people. I think an awesome way to alleviate the stress would to be to add more of it. By trying something new, say a cooking class, both people are able to be a little out of their element, and able to focus on something other than the standard interogation questions. Plus, whether there was chemestry or not, whether the two will ever see eachother again, they can both walk away with a new experience under their belt, and maybe even a new skill.