I'm back! I took a break from POF because I decided to actually settle down and date someone. Well, it blew up in my face so here I am! Don't worry, I don't carry my own baggage so you don't have to worry about me being a heartbroken emotional mess! I am a neat freak... I don't do messy!
Please stop asking me for my phone number in your initial email or asking if I want to text. I don't. I want to see if I am interested in talking further before I give you my phone number. And don't email me asking for sex. I'm not a whore and I respect myself, thank you very much. Plus, I'm a girl... I don't need POF to get laid!
So, about me... I am originally from Pittsburgh (Go Steelers!), I moved to Indy back in 2008 for work, I play softball during the Spring, Summer, and Fall, I am honest to a fault, I am also pretty blunt, I am very open minded and very accepting of people's differences and opinions, I love music, I have been told I am a decent singer (but don't ever ask to hear me sing because I have terrible stage fright), I am bisexual, I love to bake, I am an avid reader, my pet peeves are snoring, bad spelling and birds, I am addicted to cartoons, I am not a doormat, I am well educated yet very down to Earth, it is hard for me to accept help sometimes, I cuss like a sailor, I am super faithful, I am the youngest of 2 girls (hence the tomboyish nature... Daddy didn't get any sons), I don't embarrass easily, I am sarcastic and witty, I think the male version of the 'duck face' in pics is when they stick out their tongues, I have tattoos and piercings, I am not overly touchy feely, I love to make people laugh, I am stubborn and I talk a lot!
I don't have a particular type of guy that I am interested in however, there are certain traits that I do and don't like in a guy. You HAVE to have your own friends (I hate clingons), I need a handy guy (you have to be as handy as I am if not more), romance is nice but not a must, he must not partake in drama or jealousy, I like a tidy guy, if you have cool kicks, its a bonus, he must be a good listener, must put the toilet seat down, sports lovers are preferred and you should be able to keep me out of the 'just like every other girl' category until the day that I belong in it!
Please know what you want in a relationship. If you are unable to give yourself completely then please leave me be. I need someone who is willing and able to both love and be loved. Its either all or nothing with me from here on out. It is unfair to half heartedly attempt a relationship because you are afraid of getting hurt. I will promise you the same in return. No holds barred.
I promise that I am my own woman and do not behave in the typical way of the female! I do my own handy work, I am low maintenance, I HATE drama, I rarely talk on the phone, I don't really want to get married, I'm not planning on having babies, I have a job, I am super independent, my makeup consists of mascara and lip gloss, I am strong in both body and mind, my dad will confirm that I am capable of carrying/lifting/building/fixing most anything and my mom would confirm that my baking is as fierce as my right hook. ;o) I come from good people and I was raised appropriately!
I am an open book so ask away if I missed anything! Oh, and I have a bad habit of trolling through everyone's profiles right before I go to bed. I am too tired to email anything worth reading so if someone catches my eye, I add them to my favorites so that I can send them a message later. If you see that I added you to my favorites but I am taking too long to email you, shoot me a message if you're interested. I am incredibly timely and punctual in 'real life' but I'm a putz when it comes to this site. Lol I have no idea what my problem is!
Don't feel bad... The guys that I email never email me back either. :-P