Where has everyone gone...doesn't anyone want to even make friends?
Some men ask "just what are you looking for" The answer is my best friend and lover but it is like trying to find a needle in a haystack and I am beginning to think the cow might have eaten the needle while nibbling at the haystack!!!
By saying 'friend and lover' I definitely mean, that goes hand in hand...1 is no good without the other..friend comes 1st not the other way round!!!!
I am calm and quiet natured and easy to get along with but I do have a whacky , stirring sense of humour and love the same in a man. That kind of mental connection is really the best attraction between 2 people.
Would like to meet a nice honest, truthful man. Must have a good sense of humour and be a bit cheeky.Someone relaxed with a live and let live attitude.
I want to find my best friend and lover, but he doesn't need to live in my pocket if he likes space, I am not a demanding person. A man who doesn't play games and speaks the truth. I am a sucker for' bullsht and fairy floss' but if you don't mean it please don't say it one day and be gone the next.I have been told I shouldn't have posted this last sentence, but I am a bit of a straight shooter and like honesty.
I love reading especially non fiction,I like studying new ideas and different philosophies and new concepts in the way we think. I also love to draw/paint and I like doing puzzles. I do like to walk on the beach and wander around markets. One of my favorite things is having friends over for BBQs. I love to swim [mostly in heated pools]occasionally in the sea.I am swimming 5 days a week at the moment in order to increase my fitness. I have started beginners belly dance class to add to the fitness,... more fun than finesse lol
I don't watch heaps of TV but like travel or nature\animal shows.I love animals and two Siamese that iare rescued brother and sister. They can be a bit full on. she thinks she is part dog and likes to retrieve and they are both trained to a lead as I don't believe cats should wander the neighborhood..
I like to go camping too.I love most music. I would like to be slimmer and fitter but it is a work in progress lol I love going on holidays especially to somewhere new. One day I am going to travel all over this amazing country. I have the itchy feet gene lol.
Life is meant to be enjoyed and to make the most of every day, happiness is a choice made all the more sweeter by our challenges. I think life is about getting back what we give out.
I will answer all guys who email me and expect men to do the same if I say hello to them, even if it is a 'No thank you not interested
I would love to say lets do something exciting and daredevil but since the 1st meeting can be a bit daunting..I guess somewhere quiet where conversation can be heard and one can relax. A lot of emphasis is put on initial chemistry and that is ok, but it is often hard to be oneself if a bit shy.
I am always happy to respond to people who are just looking for chat/email also. . Can't have too many friends!