Am I like finding a needle in a haystack or what? Single women like me with no kids that have never been married are becoming extinct and hard to find for a man. I have never been married and don't have any children. I am honest and loyal and lobe to be romanced. My hobbies are photography and enjoying the great outdoors. My goal is to be successful in my career, settle down, get married and buy a new home with my future husband, to travel and enjoy seeing the rest of the world. I am unique because I have a great sense of humor and always have a way of making others smile. I am very compassionate, attentive, affectionate, loving, romantic as well as caring. I love all types of music including R&B, soul, Jazz, Country Western, Zydeco, Reggae, Reggae-ton, Orchestra, Rap, Salsa-Meringue, Techno, Hard Rock and much much more. I will listen to just about any culture of music and enjoy doing so. I love children but do not have any of my own. I am very good with children and enjoy doing things with them such as amusement parks, beaches, parks and much more.
On the flip side, I feel that loving someone is a DECISION...not a feeling. Physical attraction is a feeling. The PROBLEM with physical attraction is that looks come and go. There is always something NEW to be physically attracted to. That's why car companies release NEW models of the SAME car. Now is this food for thought or what ?
THE I DON'T DOS....
I WILL NOT, SHALL NOT, CAN NOT, ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY WON'T DEAL WITH THE FOLLOWING:
1. HOODRATS : THOSE WHO HAVE MORE TATTOOS THAN ALLEN IVERSON, NO GOALS NOR ASPIRATION IN LIFE, CLUB OFTEN, HAVE MULTIPLE KIDS WITH MULTIPLE BABY MOMMA'S, RIDICULOUS COLORED HAIR, DOES NOT HAVE A PROFESSIONAL CAREER, SMOKES WEED OR CIGS, SITS AT HOME WATCHING REALITY TV & MAURY OR PLAYING X-BOX 360 OR ANY OTHER TYPE VIDEO GAME WHILE COLLECTING MY TAX MONEY EVERY MONTH...I CAN GO ON AND ON AND ON!!!
2. DIGGERS: EXPECTS A WOMAN TO TAKE CARE OF THEM FINANCIALLY (GET A DARN CLUE..NO WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO TAKE CARE OF ANY MAN. A WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE MAN'S HELP MATE.
3. WOMAN BEATERS: MEN WHO BEAT, ASSAULT, AND ABUSE WOMEN, BE IT EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY WILL NOT BE TOLERATED UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES AND SHOULD BE PROSECUTED TO THE FULLEST EXTENT OF THE LAW. WOMAN ARE MADE TO BE LOVED, NOT ABUSED. I HAVE A ZERO TOLERANCE FOR BULLSHIT, CHEATERS AND LIARS.
THIS MAY BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND, SISTER, DAUGHTER, COUSIN OR MOTHER.
IF YOU ARE ANY OF THE THINGS LISTED BELOW, PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME:
-Married: No matter how long you have been "separated" you are still someone's husband, and we really can't move forward.
-Gay,Lesbian,Transbestite, Bisexual, Asexual: You men/women are not fun to be around, I get that you are trying to be something that you're not so keep it moving. and skip my profile.
-Ice-King: No fun to be around either........Im really tried, it's not just me.......it's really YOU just stay home and be frosty.
-Out for free dinners: Seems people love "free food" as much as the men on this site love "first-date sex", whether or not it's a fair trade-off is subjective and offensive.
-Looking to get back in the game (On the rebound) I do not want to be your "jump-off" , extracurricular activity or your "female homey", as you "Learn how to date" again
(It never ends well)
Oh hell.....I've eliminated everyone : ) LMAO
I'm sure some of you can appreciate an employed woman with no "baby dadday drama" ( I love kids, just never had any of my own, that train has passed) I am an endangered species. If a person is worth the time, you will make the time, it's that simple.
A NOTE FROM A FRIEND THAT I THOUGHT I'D SHARE WITH YOU:
TO THE SINGLES IS IT LOVE OR LUST¿..HOW DO YOU KNOW HE OR SHE IS YOUR MATE MANY OF US SINGLES ARE LOOKING FOR A TRUE MATE, AND EACH TIME ONE COMES IN OUR PATH WE FEEL HE OR SHE IS THE ONE, BUT THE QUESTION IS HOW YOU KNOW HE OR SHE IS YOU¿RE YOUR MATE.HAVE YOU WENT TO GOD IN PRAYER AND ASK HIM WHAT KIND OF A MATE ARE YOU LOOKING FOR.. AND I BELIEVE THE FIRST STEP ¿ONE MUST FIRST HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD WITHIN THEMSELVES. , AND GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE DESIRES OF YOUR HEART. I BELIEVE ANY RELATIONSHIP GOD MUST BE FIRST, SO HE CAN LEAD THEM. HOW CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER UNLESS THEY AGREE? MANY TIME MANY FALLS INTO TRAPS INTO AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH THE WRONG PERSON THAT WE FEEL THAT WAS FOR THEM. THERE ARE SIGNS IN THE BEGINNING OF A CONVERSATION STARTS BETWEEN YOU AND THAT PERSON MANY TIMES WE MISS THEM. THESE SIGNS ARE JEALOUSY, DISSRESPECT, LIES, CONTROL, NO COMMUNICATION OR NOT ENOUGH, CHEATING WTH MULTIPLE PARTNERS, PHYSICAL ABUSE AND MENTALLY ABUSE¿ AND THERE ARE TIMES WHERE A PERSON MAY NOT SEE THESE SIGN UNTIL LATER ON BUT THIS WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO WAIT AND LEARN ABOUT THAT INDIVIDUAL IN THERE CONVERSATION WHAT THEY ARE SAYING TO BUILD UP A FOUNDATION OF TRUE LOVE OF RESPECT, WORD OF GOD, LAUGHTER, JOY, KINDNESS, TRUST IN EACH OTHER, LISTENER, UNDERSTANDING, LEARNING ABOUT EACH OTHER ALL THESE THINGS ARE GOOD CHARACTERS OF A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. IN THE BODY OF CHRIST THE DIVORCE RATE IS HIGH AND THAT DON¿T LOOK GOOD ESPECIALLY WE ARE CHRISTIANS. THE QUESTION IS HOW DO WE KNOW HE OR SHE IS OUR MATE? IS IT LUST THAT ATTRACT AN INDIVIDUAL TO THERE MATE BECAUSE THEY LOOK SO GOOD TO OUR EYES WE LOOSE FOCUS AND THE CONVESATION THAT SWEEP YOU OFF YOUR FEET IF SO IT WONT LAST BECAUSE THEN THAT RELATIONSHIP WILL BE BUILD AROUND LUST AND NOT LOVE, AND LUST IS TEMPORARY AND IT COME WITH HEARTBREAKS, FAILTURE, AND SADNESS, BECAUSE THAT INDIVIDUAL DIDN¿T CARE FOR YOU AS YOU THOUGHT THEY SHOULD HAVE AND THEY GONE TO THE NEXT PERSON.WE MUST LEARN HOW TO WAIT ON GOD BECAUSE HE WILL TRULY LET YOU KNOW WHO IS YOUR MATE NOT US PICKING THEM. AND WE ALSO DON¿T WANT TO MISS OUR OPPORTUNITY WHEN IT COMES AND GOD SEND THEM AND WE YET SAYING HE OR SHE IS NOT THE ONE BECAUSE SOMETIMES WE MISS OUR BLESSING, WE MUST WATCH AS WELL AS PRAY AND YOUR TRUE MATE IS ON HIS OR HER WAY, IT IS GOOD TO WAIT BECAUSE IN WAITING THE REWARD WILL BE GREAT AND HAPPINESS WILL BE YOURS FOREVER,
What you do for a living, how much you make, the title under your name on your business card is really all fairy dust meant to confuse the unsuspecting public. I am more about the soul and heartbeat of the people I'm in the company of.
What a womans worth...... A woman is priceless... She's a beutiful diamond that never fades or tarnishes. A woman is the one who hold it down at all times regardless of the situation...... A woman's worth is something you should realize... Priceless.... Full of life and like a breath of fresh air... Like the morning dew that softly coats the green grass and the flowers in the early morning hour.... The woman is simply priceless... Who's more deserving than the woman who holds it down at all times by bein independent and respectful and loyal to herself..
The ideal first date would be a lunch or dinner date at a nice local restaurant. Something casual and comfortable in a public place. If things go good for dinner or lunch date, then a movie afterwards would be great.
Secondly, I'm also thinking that Starbuck's is a great place to break the ice and besides that, for starters, this would be a great place to meet and greet and have coffee.
Third idea for a date would be dinner and dancing or dinner and a walk on the beach..
Now this is something to think about. I read it online and thought it was quite interesting, but this also applies to men as well:
This is how U BUILD........
Every CONSTRUCTION project needs a FOREMAN and LABORERS. The FOREMAN is God, and the LABORERS are the man and woman who want 2 B 2gether. In order to begin construction on the BUILDING (relationship), U must first build the FOUNDATION in order to keep the BUILDING standing! The FOUNDATION of our building is TRUST!
The 1st floor of our building is COMMUNICATION.
The 2nd floor is HONESTY.
Floor 3 is RESPECT.
4th floor is LOYALTY .
The 5th floor is FRIENDSHIP .
Floor 6 is DEVOTION .
The 7th floor, the final and most important floor, LOVE!
Now why in this order? Well this is how I feel a friendship should progress N2 a blossoming relationship! As 4 TRUST being the foundation, it's like this;
Floor 1…you don't COMMUNICATE with anyone you can't TRUST!
Floor 2…U can't TRUST a person who is not HONEST!
Floor 3…U can`t RESPECT some U can`t TRUST!
Floor 4.... if they're not LOYAL, would U TRUST them?
Floor 5… U don't want a FRIENDSHIP with someone U can't TRUST!
Floor 6… why DEVOTE yourself to one U can't TRUST?
As 4 floor 7….that's self-explanatory!!!
Here's a poem I read online that I would like to share with you:
From A Man To A Woman
I dream of you every time I close my eyes,
I see your face and then you smile.
I look at you and I wonder,
why our paths have never crossed?
I feel your presence in the air,
I long for your touch I swear.
Tenderly I'll hold your hand,
softly I will kiss your lips.
For I am amazed by your inner beauty,
your sensitivity of my needs and I of yours.
I shall worship and hold you in the highest regard.
I will walk by your side and never behind or in front of you.
For I am into you and pray that you are into me.
I hold what you say to be true and will not second guess you.
I know of your hurt, for I have been hurt too.
Healing can be such a hurting pain and the process so slow.
But we shall live for the hope of a better tomorrow,
and pray that our time spent together will never end.
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