It occurs to me to share this thought: We will be suspended and frozen in an unproductive place if we set unrealistic and limiting criteria about who we hope to attract and fall in love with. I'm choosing instead to have an open trusting heart. I'm a former teacher who loves being creative and light-hearted. Family and friends mean everything to me. I'm blessed and have a good life. I believe that learning as much as I can, risking, trying things that are out of my comfort zone, laughing at myself, marveling at how glorious it is to live near Redwoods and the ocean give me the chance to live life on-the-rocks with a twist of lime.
Are you comfortable in your own skin? Oscar Wilde said "Be yourself, everyone else is taken." I'm pretty happy being me and if you are curious and adventurous we might just find some good mischief together!
Ok, I'll say a bit about myself. First, in high school I was prone to be friends with the guys in the chess club, physics club, astronomy club...I'm kind of a magnet for men who are unique and smart. I appreciate spiritual men, musicians, artist, and people who are outdoorsy and adventurous too.
I'm an Air Force Brat who has lived in many places, attended 9 schools and sure learned how to meet and get along with a wide variety of people. My choice is to spend my time on the positive side of life, and I am sure you do too. The time is ripe for me to share part of life's many mystic moments with a gregarious, engaging man. If you have a twinkle in your eyes or a hearty laugh and a big grin I just might swoon.
Seriously, though, genuinely just be yourself, and I will too. I'd like to find someone, and I'm just going to enjoy myself in this journey and see what transpires. As you can see by my pictures I'm a curvy woman and not a small, skinny one. I'm healthy. I was a dancer for many years. Including hula. A man who appreciates me for who I am will have my heart.
Although I have a gentle approach to life I have depth too. When two people can really talk about anything to one another, and listen with compassion too, there is great potential to build on. If you resonate with anything I've said, do drop me a message. I'm thinking of branching out on here a bit and do messaging.
Good luck to you in your search for love.
Warm conversation, a little bit of flirting, finding out if there are any sparks. A nice meal together. Picnic? Any ideas?