So I have come to the realization that I do not have time for a relationship, nor do I really want one. I have been on this site for awhile and I truly wanted to find someone to commit to. I have had numerous oppurtunities to do so with some very intelligent, independent, and beautiful women. The fact is that I just don't want that. I am sober and loving myself for the first time in my life, and I will not put myself in a situation that I am not comfortable with. I don't feel bad about feeling how I feel. I am young, healthy, and motivated to acheive things that I never thought possible for myself. I remain open to a relationship, because I don't know how to predict the future. But as of right now, I just want to have fun, and maybe even make some friends. Whatever happens, happens. I am living life as it comes and ,if your cool, you may join. Peace!!