I think I should clarify a few things that I believe in when it comes to this online dating thing. Do you know what you want out of life, what your struggling for or chasing after daily ? Not what society and culture are telling you to pursue . Albert Einstein said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. I don’t think any of us are going to see someones pictures or words on here and know that its the right person for them. I really don’t want to be on this dating site myself and have cringed at the Idea of having to date again. It’s hard putting yourself out there for the whole world to see. I dont believe anyone my age would really want to be single but I also realize that people my age have been in relationships for years just because of their children. I see my age group also getting divoriced because of what some call the midlife Crisis. Some people feel like the Grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Others feel like life is passing them by. And a very large portion of us are out here without really having a clue as to what we want. Some of us chase after whats cool or trendy or what other people are doing. All of us have come to this point for one reason or another. We are all attracted to certain things or physical features in a mate. That’s just nature and how we are all beautifully unique. I myself would have wished to look like Brad Pitt but instead I have been blessed to look like shreck. . I have lived in the fast lane for 22 years. Lived in many Different states and in many US cities. I have seen a large portion of the world ~ Italy, France, Spain, Malta, England, Sardinia, Israel, Saudi Arabia, Norway, Oman, Somalia ,Albania the UAE and Zaire Africa. I have been educated in college and humbled in life by the loss of loved ones. I have been given financial security and stability from the 22 Years I spent working for this country. I have been Blessed to be back home in a time when my family really needed me financially as well as physically. I am very Happy to be back home and see friends I haven’t seen in years. I wont lie to you. Some things have never changed. I see both the good and the bad in that. but its LIFE. I am debt free, I have a passport. If you want travel I am down with that. If you want to grow some roots with me I can be down with that as well. I have already seen the world and don’t feel like I am missing out on anything. I can chase after more material things but don’t really see myself getting more happiness from it. You cant take any of this stuff with you. None of your face book friends and none of the loot. But you can leave behind a legacy for those you care about and leave behind some valuable lessons about love and what really matters in this world. You can live a life where you wake with a clear conscious. Or you can wrestle with your demons at night. life is all about choices. I can live any lifestyle right now that I chose but what I do not have control over is having a companion in life that know what they really want. I cant see how anyone can really get somewhere without common goals. If your just worried about paying bills I am sorry but I left that slave reservation a long time ago. Off the Plantation so to say. I wont be the guy texting you all the time. I don’t have a need for a smart phone .If I want to talk I will call you. I can do just about anything I want to 24 hours a day so if you need a man with a short leash I probably am not him. But if I had a partner I don’t see why I would have a need to be anywhere else unless I was diving somewhere and you didn’t want to. Beaches are nice places to just visit. I don’t need someone who dives but it would be nice. I am not really a big Tv person or die hard sports fan. I like being outdoors but I don’t have to be killing myself hiking some trail to be pretending to have fun. I just enjoy Nature. Maybe have a slight dose of Hippie or tree hugger in me but I am being honest. I like to travel but I don’t like being on the go constantly. I would go as far as as saying that If you wanted to be traveling you would probably be better off being the one planning. My schedule is completely open. I have a passport and my bags are packed. I travel light. You want to party then lets paint the town. Pretty easy going guy. I don’t want to be your one night stand. I would rather just be friends and not cross that line so we both get to enjoy a relationship that lasts. Be honest with me I will be honest with you. I wont be sleeping in another womans bed if I am sleeping in yours. If you say we agree we are exclusive the online thing goes blackout. But none of this can happen if you don’t show up. Just like in sports it takes a certain amount of players to have a Ballgame. If you are a girl who likes to take very Risqu? pictures and overdo the Boob shots for all of the world to see then I am probably not your man. Not that I dont like them but I have a real brain working upstairs and I don’t want to be your next source of entertainment while your on a silicone high. You cant be hanging it all out there while claiming to be looking for "an honest man" and wonder why you keep attracting shitbirds? Just saying. I am looking for someone who is actually serious about a real monogamous relationship. When it comes to morals, ethics and values I am pretty Old School. I believe if you think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence than you have not spent enough time watering your own lawn. I will part with my favorite saying. “Thanks for coming out” ~ Brian
More of what I am looking for and what I am not . At this time in my life I am not looking to be dating a bunch of people. I have recently heard that there are women on here that use this site as a means of entertainment. Dating several men at the same time and moving from one to the next. I guess there are probably many Guys doing the same thing but I will not be in that club. .
You wont find me hanging out in bars. My Schedule is pretty open so I have ample time for the right person. I am pretty adventurous but not the kind of person who needs to be out doing something all of the time. I enjoy being at home as much as I like going out. but you wont have to peel me off the couch or away from the Tv. I do not follow sports as much as most people do. I am an intellectual person and like learning new things and being informed.
I have a you tube channel where a few of my scuba diving videos are posted. If you google "medteam6-spar" they come up in the search results.