Ok, a short profile about myself. I am not proud of this profile but loneliness finds me here. I was separated for a year but reconciled 3 months ago.....I knew it was a mistake immediately. But some things, things that hurt people can't always be un done. I do appreciate the advice from others saying that they can be....but. My wife has two children, not mine but never the less I am close to them and worry about there future and happiness (9 &13)
The other thing that complicates it, and perhaps why we reconciled is I have Herpes. I am not a player and my total partners is very limited but this still embarrasses me a great deal....even being a nurse.
Bottom line, I am lonely and looking for someone to laugh with and just hang out. I can't predict my future just today and today I am as lonely as possible.
You must be a non smoker/drug user. I don't drink but kissing and Tequila is as good as it gets.
Just wanted to be honest with everyone.....I won't hold my breath.
Good luck everyone!!
Adversity is the state in which man most easily becomes acquainted with himself, being especially free of admirers then.
When The Dalai Lama was asked what surprised him most, he said “Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”
Believing partners will inspire each other and connect on all levels...physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. A relationship where we are maintaining our own identities, while creating and blending our lives. To accept each other just the way we are...as imperfect perfection! Good conversation and laughter are important, and of course great chemistry!
"He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mista
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I wish they still had drive-in's Sit in the back of a pick-up truck on a cold night with a blanket....OK, maybe too much for a first date. I guess it's more the second, third or 4th date I think of especially with winter here. I love the cool air of the ocean.....to sit on one of those life guard towers with a really warm blanket and just listen to the wind and the waves and hold you.
First date though....I am pretty agreeable. I like food and movies but can't dance....a Laker game and maybe eat down there at there new city complex??