Love love love my children 25,23,22 and 20. Two grand children 3&7!!! Who I love very much. Before anyone else ask????? My children are black and so are my grand kids! Not sure where that matters but frequentlyasked "do I date black men?.. So the answer is ???? Figure it out. My name is Melissa...and yes I know I don't smile much!!! Trust me I'm very happy and laughter is a big part of my life. I enjoy shopping, spending as much time with my grand babies and I won't lie!!!! I love to eat!!! Lol yes I said it don't judge me! Just appreciate an honest woman... can't say I'm on this site looking for my soulmate Because I'm not! I'm just looking!!! Time will only tell.