As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man - what can you do for me that I can't do for myself?
I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'
I am not referring to money. I need something more……
I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.
I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually.
I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden.
I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.
I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.
I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader and provider to others.
I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot respect a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive or a equal partner...he just has to be worthy.
I know I am asking a lot. but "I'm worth a lot".