I am told I am an attractive, sharp guy, 58. I am only looking for a friendship that could possibly lead to a long term, committed, monogamous, living together relationship. I definitely believe in friends first. I am told I am unusual for Las Vegas; I am financially secure and have no bad habits, baggage, or skeletons in the closet. I am a gym rat, lean and very muscular, workout six days a week. I am frequently given the unsolicited compliment that I do not look my age. I only mention this so you know what I am about, by no means am I looking for the perfect body, or a workout partner. I do want someone who is in good shape, even if your exercise is a daily walk. Don't want to sound shallow but I spend many hours in the gym every week, someone who is not reasonably fit would be a poor match for me. More importantly, I am told I am a nice person with a pleasant low-key personality, someone who has strong values, and places much importance on having integrity. if you are a drug user, smoker, heavy drinker, or bar/party/club girl, please do not respond; it would be a terrible match as I lead a quiet, healthy lifestyle. I am much less concerned with common interests; I believe chemistry is much more important than common interests, it is how you get along, we can't enjoy all of the same things, it is not realistic. If you were someone who has to be on the go all the time or is a world traveler, it also probably would not be a good match; I definitely like home and need plenty of relaxation time. I live in Henderson and have been a Valley resident fifteen years. Although I bought a new home in the last year, my ultimate goal is move to a waterfront location. I am told I have an excellent , dry sense of humor, an important quality for my mate to have as well. If you have what it takes to be selective, let's talk openly and without pressure; we may surprise each other. If we decide to meet, I prefer a low-key cup of coffee. I am told I am a friendly guy, easy to talk to. I am probably not what you expect to find on this site, that is probably a good thing. I prefer someone who does not have small children. I believe in friends first.