So take a deep breathe and fall in love!
Update March 2013: I recently lost 25 lbs ( pictures to come soon) by trying to eat right, walking up at the bluffs, and my new stress reliever doing pilates on the reformer. That doesn't mean I cant enjoy pizza or cheeseburger now and again. If you're ever up on the north east side of town and want to take a walk let me know.
I have also come to realize that I want and am ready for a serious relationship so if you're not, don't waste either of our time. I want someone who I can celebrate the good times with and be able to talk through the difficult times with. I know what I want and won't settle.
I am a fun-loving woman who moved back to bakersfield from san francisco. I am a simple girl (doesn't need alot to make me smile) who loves to laugh and will laugh at anything. Tee-shirt and jeans is the perfect outfit for me but I can dress up and go out on the town. I am always ready to have fun and be spontaneous like getting a tattoo( I have 5 my newest one is on my foot and it is the quote "it is what it is" ) but am kind of old fashion when it comes dating.
My family is the world to me since it is small but I could never be without my friends who I consider an extension of family. I love my job ... most days. I am independent and can be by myself but am looking for a mate who I can share experiances with (travel) and could become my best friend( i know it's cliche but true).
Honesty and Humor is a must to any relationship. I am looking for someone who enjoys the simple things in life and looks for the positive in everything because i try to see the best in any situation. Everything happens for a reason and I live life with no regrets No Day But Today