I don't want to just touch, I want to be touched. I don't want to be needed, I need to be wanted.
I am an enigma. I can play any sport, but am the master of none. It is that way with most things in my life. I can make most people laugh, even in awkward situations.
I’m 6’3”, 230, follicly challenged brown hair, multi-color eyes, (really) they pick up on my shirt and mood. I take pride in that I'm not a "typical" guy. If you want someone who is domineering, I'm not for you. I was raised by my mother and want an equal partner, but I do put the seat down!!! :)
I'm an animal person without any, that is typically asked to pet sit. I’m an Orioles, Caps, Cowboys fan, and enjoy throwing darts, walking around the neighborhood and it's beaches, and playing older card games (canasta/cribbage). I love trying new foods and cooking and pairing with wine. It's my artistic talent, please don't ask me to sing or draw. I like ALL music, but listen to more 80's and pop. My playlist goes from Disturbed to the Dixie Chicks. I have no ink, but not a prob if you don't mind.
I had full custody of my now 20 y/o son and 18 y/o daughter since 2006. I expect a lot from them and get a lot in return. He lives on his own and is in the navy and she is going to college in South Carolina. It hasn't been easy for any of us, but I won't make excuses. Once you lower expectations, you make it harder for things to get better. I'm frequently asked, because ALL of this is true, why am I single? I've concentrated all my effort into my children and myself. Now I'm ready to focus on a relationship.
I want someone to compliment and INSPIRE me to be a better person. Although you can never have too many friends, I'm strictly on here for a monogamous relationship.
Somewhere to talk and get to know each other.
I was recently asked if I was looking for something specific in a mate? Here was my response:
If you want this choice position
Have a cheery disposition
Rosy cheeks, no warts
Play games, all sorts
You must be kind
You must be witty
And fairly pretty
Go on outings
Sing songs, be sweet
Never be cross or cruel
Never give me castor oil or gruel
Love me and my son and daughter
And never smell of barley water
If you won't scold and dominate
I will never give you cause to hate
I won't hide your spectacles so you can't see
Put toads in your bed or pepper in your tea
Many thanks, Sincerely
Just cause you can't beat em don't mean you should join them.