Ok, so I'm not holding my breath for a full-on relationship. I would say, that I'm looking to "date", if that turns into a series of dates and the two of us decide collectively to become exclusive, then GREAT. Now, with that being said, if it just becomes a casual dating situation, or even a sexual relationship well, that's not exactly what I'm looking for, but I will accept an alternate type of companionship.
However, I will abide by my rules in that, if we do become exclusive, then there's no chance I'll cheat on you. In fact, if you're prone to cheating at all...pass me by.
Here's another thing: I don't date outside of my race, and women who do are not attractive to me. I know that we're all supposed to be politically-correct and all that, but I just don't dig it, it's not how I was raised and I believe that the good Lord made us different for a reason.
Now, that being said, to all the women of a different race who have sent me messages, I appreciate the effort, but no thanks.
For several years now on various profiles on various dating websites, I've seen every woman is looking to find, "that one guy who'll prove you're not all the same" or "for a man, who is honest and caring and blah blah blah blah...".
Only, I notice that even though all these women profess to want that all-too-perfect man that they've never had before, they usually end up going after the douchebag with the nice butt and flashy car.
Here's a little newsflash ladies, those types of guys will treat you like sh*t and expect you to ask for more. If you, on even a first date, find that the guy is broken in some way what part of the female mind tells you to fix him? Were you the one that broke him in the first place?
I'm sorry, but I'm becoming more cynical the older I get...
However, I am NOT perfect but I am: honest to a fault, loving, caring, hardworking and loyal. I open doors, I'll be there if you need me, and I'll say nice things and compliment your looks and attire. Plus...I'm not totally terrible to look at, I don't think anyway. Plus, big guys cuddle better, don't ya think??
I have all kinds of likes, dislikes and many preferences, but even if I don't fall head-over-heels for you and propose marriage, chances are I won't totally snub you. I'll talk to anybody, even if that means that's as far as it goes. I don't have it in my heart to be a mean to anyone who doesn't warrant it.
So, if you have questions, comments or concerns, want to talk a bit, or just ask me what my favorite ice cream flavor is...drop me a line, I don't bite... unless you ask nicely.
This is already lengthy, but I'm gonna add this based on recent circumstances. If you DO message me, expect that if I'm interested, I'm going to ask you out! What else are we here for ladies??
Don't carry on a conversation with me, feign interest and then run when I ask you out! If you don't want to meet me, that's totally fine, I'm a big boy and life will go on!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm not picky at all, I can have fun in nearly every situation. Very flexible, except...I do not see the point in so-called "fine-dining". Sure, it's fancy, but are you really paying for food or snotty waiters? I'm just not a big fan.