I am a good-hearted person that loves to laugh. I always thought I knew what I wanted out of life and a relationship, until someone very important to me told me that I didn't really know. It isn't that I suddenly agreed, but it really made me step back and think about what it is that I want and need. I have figured out a few things so far: I want to laugh and smile when I am with that person; I want to start by building a friendship.
It is good to take your time and see where things go. I want someone I can have a conversation with and have that be just as great an attraction as the physical. Don't get me wrong physical attraction is great, but there has to be something beyond that to make things worthwhile.
I also believe that people should take the time to talk out their differences making an effort to forgive before ending the day. I know it doesn't always work, but remembering that you care about each other before your head hits the pillow could be the difference between getting hit in the head with a skillet.....lol. (FYI - I have never hit anyone with a skillet)
I worked for a corporation that assists people with disabilities teaching them various skills and helping them to live more independent lives...most of us take our lives for granted. And working with them reminded me how lucky I am. I am currently freelancing as an advocate for those with disabilities. I have returned to school to finish my degree I am pursuing a double major in Psychology and Human Services. I'd really like have a greater impact on improving the quality of life for people with disabilities. I am NOT looking for a guy to pay my bills. I find the time spent with people is far more rewarding than admiring the things they have.
I am a caring, kind, giving, and passionate person, but I also have a sassy fun side that will keep you guessing. I have a thing for construction guys, musicians, and cowboys... I find the creativity and nature to be amazing, beautiful, somehow peaceful.
I am not interested in playing games... so please don't message me if you are. I am also not interested in spending time getting to know you if you are all talk and no action. By this I mean - I completely understand that meeting someone new can be nerve racking and scary, but the best things in life happen when you are willing to take a chance. I think I am one of the better things in life and worth taking that chance.
Ideally I'd like to have an honest relationship with someone, but good relationships take time to build. So in the meantime...I'd like to spend time with someone that can make me laugh and we can enjoy each other's company. Let's get to know one another.
I use a wheelchair to get around...I realize that this one little fact may have completely changed your perspective of me and that's ok I know what I have to
offer and the chair doesn't change that... I wish you the best.