I AM ME!! I absolutely love being me!
I love it when I can feel totally comfortable being myself when I'm with someone.
I've heard from a few that i shouldn't have "a few extra pounds" listed on my profile but im honest to a fault. That's how I see myself it may not be how you see me. I am working on it and always striving to be better. I had surgery 5 months ago and was bed ridden the whole time so now its time to get back in shape amd move forward.
GENTLEMEN- If you message me and I don't respond it is probably because all you did was say Hi or tell me I'm gorgeous. I really appreciate the compliment and like receiving them but I would hope you could find something more original or intriguing to say. I hope you all don't take this the wrong way.
I like to keep things simple and enjoy simple things. I am all about having fun and enjoying life. Life is too short not to live, laugh and love.
Classy, Intelligent, Feisty, Sweet, Driven, Career Oriented, Tough, Thoughtful, Guarded, Careful, Sassy, Independent and at times not very gentle. I am often shy at first, I come out of my shell when I trust you and feel safe. I am loyal to a fault. I love being outdoors. I would say that I am a well rounded woman who can go from riding motorcycles and camping to dressing up, fine dining and wine tasting. I love to watch football, especially on Sundays. Staying home, having a few beers cooking & watching the game or going out to a fun little bar & watching the game. Either is fun for me.
I am pretty much the "Cool Girlfriend" - the one that no one takes seriously. All of my married guy friends wonder why I am still single, I am still single because I am enjoying my freedom and meeting new people but I miss having someone around. I love to have fun and amazing experiences with the person I am with and I love to laugh. If you make me laugh and my worries melt away and I am extremely attracted to you, then watch out because we might have way too much fun together. I am pretty down to earth and laid back. Some say I think like a guy and I will admit, it is probably true. I don't like being smothered, can't stand jealous, controlling men. I like a man who can take control when needed but who is not controlling. I am too free spirited for that.
I would like to meet someone and have a long term relationship eventually but finding the right person has proven to be quite the challenge and I don't have time for all the drama, nor do I want the drama and I refuse to settle.
So here's the deal gentlemen, tell the truth, say what you want, be who you are. I am not looking for "just sex" although that can be fun. As a man you must have your sh*ttogether, be responsible and stable. You must know how to treat a woman, because I know how to treat a man.
First date. Well if we haven't even met yet then coffee or drinks are okay. But if it is really a first date I like to be surprised by a man that can put together a nice, fun date. That's one way to impress me & I like being spontaneous.