I've decided that this site is not for me. Here is what i have learned the hard way. Women want a man who is free of all ties to anything. Basically a man with a 9-5 job and a bank account to support multiple vacations and one who is available 24-7. I'm not bitter about that, i just know I'm not that man. I support myself and i support my young sons with child support. I spend time with my boys and will not sacrifice that for anyone. It seems that women sees a man with young children as having " baggage" ..its a shame.. ill never trade my boys for any woman ..