SERIOUSLY, GO OUT!!! THAT PERSON YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS LIKELY WITHIN THE PARAMETERS OF YOUR DAY TO DAY WORLD.
Like the guy at the market or the cook at your favorite restaurant.
My work is on Instagram: Smarterhands
Saying "hi" is all you really have in a public situation, I see nothing wrong with uing it on here. Too many of you seem to want way more in an introduction. How would that go in a public setting? You would be creeped out. Sometimes a smile and hi can be the start to something awesome.
men like: A SENSE OF HUMOR TO JOKE WITH..
Confidence is pretty damn sexy too.
Touched up photos are a great sign of insecurity, that can work two bad ways.
1:it's obvious we are trying to look our best but when you meet someone and don't look like your photo they instantly feel lied to.
2: Many men on here are " hunting ", if they see insecurities this obvious it becomes a even more of game to them.
WE are all weird, love is finding the right amount of weirdness to balance off your weirdness.
My photos are normal, my friends love me and I just want intelligent mature company.
No rush, no pressure, just be patient. You will find him, I will find her.
If you got this far and think I'm missing out, my email tells me when I get messages so contact me. As I mentioned, "hi" is perfectly acceptable. No alcoholics, no hard drugs. Keep an open mind. Bathing a wild bobcat in a shower stall is easier than filtering through here.
*if we meet and I discover you are married or in a relationship , your boyfriend/husband and family will find out what you are doing. I promise. Fuct up people who choose to cheat in a relationship need to pay for their actions and I don't mind helping that karma along.
Coffee, tea, soda pop, gourmet dessert... First meetings should be inexpensive n dutch so if it doesn't click nobody leaves regrets just the bill. Besides, if the other party isn't your thing and you want to leave in the first 10 minutes, its just a drink. Alcohol makes decisions, maybe being nervous is actually a protection program and not something out to sabotage a date. Awkward moments are usually funny.