SERIOUSLY, GO OUT!!! THAT PERSON YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS LIKELY WITHIN THE PARAMETERS OF YOUR DAY TO DAY WORLD.
Like the guy at the market or the cook at your favorite restaurant.
Prairie Home Companion: News from Lake Wobegone.. YouTube it and close your eyes, get lost in your imagination for small town life. This show has been part of my life since birth. I listen to it regularly.
My work is on Instagram: Smarterhands
Saying "hi" is all you really have in a public situation, I see nothing wrong with uing it on here. Too many of you seem to want way more in an introduction. How would that go in a public setting? You would be creeped out. Sometimes a smile and hi can be the start to something awesome.
The golden ratio. Fibonacci. Idéal proportion to ones nature. We begin with visual attraction, we think we are the master of our own decisions, pheromones make the final choices. It's science, we are searching on a digital format for something nature runs. Current photos are your best approach, less to no perfume can be something to consider too.
A no sex clause for the first how ever many dates is also a thought..
men like: A SENSE OF HUMOR TO JOKE WITH..
Confidence is pretty damn sexy too.
Touched up photos are a great sign of insecurity, I understand we all want to look great. Altering your photo to take away laugh lines, greys or weight is starting off with a lie. Same goes for age. We can all get served at a bar now, get past your numbers.
WE are all weird, love is finding the right amount of weirdness to balance off your weirdness.
My photos are normal, my friends love me and I just want intelligent mature company.
No rush, no pressure, just be patient. You will find him, I will find her.
If you got this far and think I'm missing out, my email tells me when I get messages so contact me. As I mentioned, "hi" is perfectly acceptable. No alcoholics, no hard drugs. Keep an open mind. Bathing a wild bobcat in a shower stall is easier than filtering through here.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Coffee, tea, soda pop, gourmet dessert... First meetings should be inexpensive n dutch so if it doesn't click nobody leaves regrets just the bill. Besides, if the other party isn't your thing and you want to leave in the first 10 minutes, its just a drink. Alcohol makes decisions, maybe being nervous is actually a protection program and not something out to sabotage a date. Awkward moments are usually funny.