What if your perfect partner is stuck in a fat girl she's just struggling to hold on, waiting for someone worth pushing through for? Waiting for the one to encourage her when she's ready to just give up? Not everyone is stronger than their internal demons or has the proper support to stay afloat. You never know what you are missing out on by judging with just a glance.
Below are lyrics from songs that speak to me!
"I saw my baby cryin hard as babe could cry. What could I do. My baby's love has gone and left my baby blue, nobody knew. What kind of magic spells to use."
There will always be someone better than you, as well as worse than you. If you don't like something or someone move on. No need to intentionally hurt others on purpose. Instead of always looking for what's wrong with others, try to look for what's good. Things would be so much better if people stopped focusing on what the eyes see. Look with your heart and soul.
"Ooh, I don't care what anyone says,
'Cause you and I are bigger than this.
And I'll be there just keepin' my arms wide open
Ooh, they can try to pull us apart
I'll fight them but I'll cover your heart
Yeah, we can fly together, we can't be broken"
"I'll give you shelter, out of the rain
I'll make a good day, out of the pain
And if you got a long way down, I'll feel the same
I'll give you shelter, out of the rain
So let me kiss you head to toe, upon this table top
Cause baby you can have it your way
I'll keep you safe and warm you know I'm never gonna stop
Cause babe I think we'll make it someday"
"They say before you start a war,
You better know what you're fighting for.
Well, baby, you are all that I adore.
If love is what you need, a soldier I will be."
"Yeah, your friends may think I'm crazy,
cause they can only see,
I'm not perfect, but I swear, I'm perfect for you.
..and there's no guarantee,
that this will be easy.
It's not a miracle ya need, believe me.
Yeah, I'm no angel, I'm just me,
but I will love you endlessly.
Wings aren't what you need, you need me."
If you approach me with respect I will return the favor, if I feel like socializing. Some days I don't leave my house because humans suck!
I have a very strong moral compass. I am honest about everything. I do not play games, and I expect you not to play them with me. I am faithful to anyone I care about. If you lie to me consider yourself cut out of my life. I don't have time to deal with people afraid of telling the truth whatever it is. I am a VERY understanding person. If you explain your issues or doubts to me I will respond with the truth to help dispel them.
I have a brain, and I put it to good use. I pay attention to actions, not words. I pay attention to details.
I had an ex tell me Kanye's song Heartless was about me. I can be the most caring person in the world unless you hurt me, then ice runs through my veins and I sever all contact.
**TIPS ** I am NOT down to f*ck, FWB, NSA, sexting, phone sex, "cuddling", Netflix and chill, or whatever else you think will work. I am 1000% not meeting up with anyone alone period. You can't hang with me in public, I can't hang with you in private. The only people I like poking me are my tattoo artists. I'm not a prude or whatever, I just choose to not have sex with random dudes. If that means being alone then oh well guess what I'm totally prepared and content to live my life that way.
If you're not honestly trying to get to know me then peace out homie.
I am open to suggestions. We can go see a movie, action or chick flick, horror or super hero. Get that awkward silence out of the way. Go to dinner, get some dessert. Bowling or shoot pool. Something public so neither of us has to worry about the other being a serial killer. ;)