I am me, love it or hate it, your opinion does not matter.
I am not here for sex, no matter how many muscles you have, or how big your wallet, it will not change my mind.
If you message me for sex and I tell you no, calling me fat or ugly or whatever will not hurt my feelings, it will just make you an even bigger douche than you already are.
My son comes first, always will.
I could care less if I am single for the rest of my life, I will not settle on anyone who cannot love me for who I am.
Do not assume that just bc I am overweight I have a low self-esteem, I have more confidence in myself now than I did when I was 125lbs.
Don't message me telling me all the things you think a girl needs to hear in order to get her to open her legs. I'm not that girl, it actually annoys me and I stay suspicious of complements until I know the type of person you are.
I would rather have a crappy lover who doesn't lie, cheat, or treat me badly than to have someone awesome in bed who goes around doing every chick he can.
I have a big heart and always try to do for others whatever I can to help. Do not mistake that as a weakness.
I listen to all types of music, watch all types of movies, and read a lot of fiction.
As long as the people around me are having fun and enjoying themselves so am I.
I have been lied to, cheated on, and treated badly so of course I'm going to be iffy about anyone, and yes I will hold back until I'm sure about you.
I will message you good morning and goodnight if we aren't together.
I will support you in whatever you want to do but I will not be afraid to tell you you are being completely stupid or irrational about your decision.
If you want advice I will give the best I can, but if you just want someone to listen I am fully capable of keeping my mouth shut.
If you need a hug I have 2 working arms.
If you need a distraction from something stressful I have corny jokes for days.
I'll add more later if you haven't decided I'm crazy or stuck up or whatever other judgements you have decided to make without really getting to know me.