I guarantee you, I'm not your typical male. I really don't like sports too much (occasional Redskins game), I love music and movies (anything entertainment) and I even like movies that make you cry! ;-) I've got a HUGE heart and not afraid to show it. Now, while I'm a kind and gentle heart, I'm NOT a push-over. Get to know me, and you'll find out.
I like getting out, camping, hiking, festivals, not much of a fisherman (but I'll try! see...told you I wasn't the typical male). I'm a pretty darn good cook, but usually don't cause it's no fun cooking for one.
Professionally, I was a computer programmer for over 20 years but I burned out! Now, I'm a musician and am trying to break free and leave that old, stale life behind! I'm sorta in between jobs.....laid off back in March from that computer job, but in the meantime, I'm enjoying the musician thing. A few people that contacted me we worried about the musician stereotype. But, I guarantee....it's a job for me, not a lifestyle!
I've got zero fashion sense.....so don't expect an Ambercrombie model. I'm more into a relaxed feel -- tye dies. Not a hippie in the true sense, but I embody some of the ideals: love and respect for ALL, help the planet, good music.
What I'm seeking: I'm not seeking a model or perfection. I'm looking for a down-to-earth type who is VERY giving (I KNOW that I am), fun to be around, and natural. I'm also seeking someone who is a TRUE giver, as I am -- many say they are, but action speak louder than words. I'm also NOT into cat/mouse games. If you are real, done playing games, and not perfect please contact me. We might be a great match! ALSO....if you are ONLY into dating around, please do NOT contact me. I've been burned by this a few times. I only date one person at a time (and if it goes Long Term, that would be great!), but I'm NOT into dating 2-3 people at once.
Also, as a fun thing.....if you email me, please share with me your "love style". Lots of people have different ways to share love....here they are:
1) verbal affirmations (ie, I miss u, I love u)
2) spending quality time (speaks for itself.....)
3) touch (i'm not talking about sex here, I'm talking about touch.....hugs. back rubs....holding hands.....a kiss)
4) gifts (speaks for itself.....)
5) doing things for others (ie, cutting the grass, or washing the dishes, or helping in some way......etc)
For me, I'd say TOUCH is my main love style with GIFTS being dead LAST. I could care less about gifts. Give me Touch.
For me, I guess the first contact would be a quick meetup, like for a coffee for quick beer -- just to see if we have vibes. THEN, we can go out on a first date.....