I am a bit of a geek that loves 80s alternative/90s grunge/goth music. I have been in the bay area since 2005, but I grew up on the East coast. My favorite place to visit semi-locally is Gualala. It is a great place to go and enjoy the great outdoors and be out of reach of technology for a while. I get bored kinda easily and as such I have moved around a lot and have changed my hair color frequently. I had season tickets to the San Diego Gulls and the Colorado Gold Kings in the West Coast Hockey league when it still existed.
If you are looking for someone to jump in bed with you on the first date--not going to happen.
If you want someone who worships you and gives up there sense of self--again, not gonna happen.
I'm looking for someone who is my friend and then if more comes of it great but i don't buy into the casual sex partner crap.
and for those who aren't clear on certain things, goth DOES NOT equal into BDSM!
Special request, if I have made an effort to contact you, please be respectful enough to at least let me know that you are not interested. Honesty is a wonderful thing. I of course, will try to do the same.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Meet for coffee or drinks, grab lunch, catch a concert/play, go to a Sharks game!, hang at the dog park and play with doggies (I don't have one)