My best friend is a guy. Hell, all my best friends are guys. I get this line constantly: "You're really awesome, so there MUST be a catch". Seriously. There isn't a catch. The only thing stopping anyone with a legitimate sense of reality is my four year old son. He's quite expressive. Quite expressive = he's hyper and stubborn. He's four. It happens. And he's part of the deal, eventually. I also have a 14 yr old son.Two long term relationships that didn't work. So yes, I'm that girl. The single mom with two kids from two different dads. Just where I wanted to be at 34. They don't need dads, they have them, btw.
I do all the outdoorsy stuff other girls claim to. I'm a football fan of one team. The Texans. I don't care to watch others, and I don't care if you do, I'll watch with you. I tailgate. I fish. I bait my own hook. I like trucks. I like outside. I like movies, I like inside. I can cook. I like NASCAR. Music is a big part of my life in more ways than one. Especially Texas country music. I book bands/gigs for two different bars in my spare time. Doesn't mean I drink, or am always at the bar. I am, though, a sucker for a guy that can play the guitar and sing. Turns out to be a bad weakness at times.
I do things for people. A lot of things. Benefits, fundraisers, etc. Because I've been there. I'm a cancer survivor. I've had more than ten surgeries, you can't tell, but I know and I don't open up about it easily. It was a big issue in my last five year relationship. How the f did I know I was gonna get sick? Bitter? A little.
Regardless, I'm an awesome friend and an even awesomer partner. Treat me right, I'll treat you better. And my God, people, grow up. If you figure out within a few days you're not interested in someone, just tell them. Pay attention to what people want in their profile.... the age... the type of relationship they want. That's kinda a big deal.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
i dont care. i really, really dont. it's been so long, i'm not even sure i know what an actual date is. i wanna just be comfortable. random. spur of the moment. a road trip, a hole in the wall bar or restaurant.