I'm a laid back kind of person that really can't stand to be around drama. I'm as loyal as they come once I'm yours, but has yet to find the same kind of loyalty back. I enjoy the outdoors, movies, and cooking. I tend to stay in at night, I had my fun and now I would like to settle down, I do enjoy an adventure now and then to keep things interesting. I'm pretty busy with being a single mom, working, and going to school, so understanding is a must. If you just want to hook up and "have fun" I'm not your girl, I have too much to offer to have the same kind of relationships that I had when I was 20. If I feel like I'm being played or I am one of many I'm out, I don't have time to waste on someone who is just out to lie and play games. I mean what I say, whether it is making plans or what it is I am about or how I am feeling at a particular moment, and I expect the same from a man, please do not tell me what you think I want to hear because 9 times out of 10 you don't mean it and it will come back to bite you. I am sarcastic so you must have a strong personality if your going to be able to handle me. It is a real turn off when I feel I can walk over you and get pretty much anything from you. I need to be told no every once in awhile. I don't really have a certain personality type we either click or we don't it's really simple. Every person is different and has different things to offer to a relationship. My main requirement is that you have to make me laugh I enjoy smiling and keeping that smile on my face, the day is always easier that way. In my past relationships I tended to feel that I put more into then the other person and I'm over that too. If you don't want to put in some work then you don't deserve me.