So i had a long winded , heartfelt profile up here that expressed who i am and what im looking for in detail but it became odvious to me that hardly anyone bothered to read it or cared so i decided to abreviate it somewhat and go with the standard " im down to earth, dont like drama and dont play games P.O.F template"It does get a
little tiring sending out a bunch of emails based on blurb thats just like the hundreds of others ive read. Whats even more tiring and annoying was all the games and wishy washiness ive gotten from alot of girls on here. I dont have a problem meeting girls but i do have a problem with winding up with the wrong ones for me. I am an artistic, passionate, adventurous dreamer/ I got sick of working for the man full time about ten years ago and have been self employed ever since. I have had my ups and downs being my own boss but I really love what i do and thats of major importance in life. Sometimes I work Janky hours and have busy and slow months that can be hard for a woman to deal with. Dont assume that because Im my own boss that Im still not working towards my goals or that im financially big pimpin. I have to work to make a living like everybody else, maybe even harder than most full timers. The difference is that it takes years of hard work, dedication and risk to build your own business and with the way Im wired I would be abysmally depressed If I didnt give my passions all Ive got. Even If I Fail epically, at least i fought for the dreams I had. Its really a dealbreaker with me if a girl wants me to stop living for myself and its taken me some time to realize that. I dont meet many women with real passions of theyre own and I find Woman who understand passions and have some of theyre own very attractive. I am also a serious artist and treat my art like a second job ( I wont get into what that is just yet but feel free to ask) Im not trying to impress anybody. I also have a hard time finding someone equal parts responsible and who knows how to have fun without overdoing it . I end up looking like the crazy one and or Im a boob because I dont feel like going to the after afterparty cause I got bills n shit. I work hard and I like to play hard but at the end of the day I know I have to get up and be responsible to the people that rely on me. I have a two year old daughter who means the world to me and becoming a father is one of the best things thats ever happened to me im a big boy, I dont need a mother or someone to try and set me straight. I am now and always have been a one woman man . Never cheated not even once. I need a woman who has poise and self respect and is nurturing and understanding but I also need someone that can cut loose and be exciting and adventurous and the kind of wild that most men fantasize aboutweather they choose to admit it or not. I dont want to have to put up a front and be someone Im not. The best thing you can have in arlationship is comfort and honesty.
Im pretty simple and easy to please kind of guy. Not big into crazy reality show type activity dates or maybe i just dont know it yet. Dinner and drinks and good conversation is ideal. Im fairly adventurous, articulate and I have a good sense of humor so if your easily offended I might be a little left of center at times. I love my high powered motorcycles, if your brave enough to jump on the back thats a big plus. Im a city boy trapped in the suburbs. Nothing i love more than a late night crotch rocket cruise on a warm summer night down lake shore drive with someone specials arms around my waist.