Looking for love and...a steady "girl friend", don't need a Barbie, but if you took care of yourself it shows and I believe in that concept.
Fall is around the corner and I want to go to the mountains and see the leaves, are you game? Also, sorry but I split/dutch dates, I am tired of freeloaders. if a relationship is to work at least in the beginning its 50/50.
About me: I like to hunt,camp, sea kayaking, golf, travel, cook, work out at the gym twice a week and have fun. I like the PATS football and anything New England, except the snow..shoveling... I like classic rock from 70's an 80's ( Men at Work, Pink Floyd) Loreena McKinnitt, very earth oriented English music, also classic Bolaro tunes and almost everything else except rap. The Sax and Stevie Nicks (voice) are very sexy. Did I say blues, I love and the black folk came up with some of the greatest tunes...I like romantic evenings ranging from staying at my home with a fireplace and snuggling to a enjoying a good ole bubble bath with scented candles. And also can cook a great meal or go out for dinner. A walk on the beach when its empty and moon-lite. And lets be real, great sex is important to any real relationship, not looking to get laid here, as in one night stand can get it anytime so move on if your not long term hunting. Great sex happens when your really care for the other person....takes time. Besides latest research say you live longer and have less stress...can you argue with that?
Finer things like fine food, seafood, Italian, German etc..are good. I cook, I write and and I travel (Anthony Boudain), foody I am. Not big on computer chatting, rather talk in person, also not into head games, or messing with ones heart, life is to short. And about the God and religion thing, yes I would like to meet someone who can help me out this aspect, as it has been missing in my life.
I lived in New England, that is Maine and New Hampshire for over 20 yrs, before moving here and working for the government as an environmental-geologist. I love my two daughters, my black lab zorro, and work, but want a lady in my life to share times with for the future. I do watch the TV such as; Nat Geo, Hist channel, NCIS, BBC, and the military channel. Like good flicks and don't mind simply hanging out in the evening around the fireplace sharing thoughts. I own my own house, and living comfortabley until retirement in 10 yrs..then back to New England for spring fall and summer on Golden Pond..
Lastly I am financially secure, and sound in my reasoning and the past is the past we need to look forward to the future!
About you: I am now looking for a lady to share times with; dinner, movies, dating and being friends first and see if things progress perhaps to long term..honest, trustworthy, and optimistic is a beginning. Have a job or at least make enough money to enjoy life. I am looking for sincerity in a woman, not one who is looking for wine me, dine me, and forget me...And please if your not over your last relationship, DO NOT contact me and waste our time, nothing personal, but that is the way it is. Oh the kayaking thing, is my new sport and looking for your willingness to learn and if you already do then teach me more.. must be physically active. One last thing this is a wish list, not a requirement...