Any woman can spend a man's money, ride in his car and order off the menu. But only a real woman can help a man achieve his goals in life, support him when he is broke, push him to be successful, shower him with positive energy, compliment him on a regular basis and never kick him while he is down. If you find a woman like that make her your real partner for life. This is who I want to be for the right man. This is who I am.
It doesn't matter what I write on here...We are human... we look at pics....we want more pics....then the body pics become important. Why are we as humans so shallow. Why is the heart just not good enough. Haven't we realized that a person can change so much on the outside year after year...but an ugly heart will always be just that!!! But then we women lie....make it worse.....Men are turned off because women put 10 to 20 plus year old pics on here and we are crazy as hell!!! Why lie??? When the men finally meet us...they are like "what the hell?" Women are turned off because....Well, let just say it! We are crazy as hell! We have no clue what we want and probably sabotage anything good that comes our way because we are so jaded. We live in our past. Ruin any possibilitiy of a good thing. I do not want to be that...I tell myself I am not that. but someone else has messed it up and now the "date" becomes an interview...Really? Seriously???
The real is all gone! We are just all crazy as hell!
"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."
I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think he might be interested but do I want to be interested but now he's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss him? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your ass sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.
I say lets just start marking off the bucket list!!! :)