I don't care what anything says ,but to some point looks matter. The physical features are what you see first, but that doesn't mean your personality should be put on the back burner. I say as long as you are clean, well dressed , have good manners and a sense of humor, you are good to go. A person should like you for the whole package and if the date doesn't go right, then the person wasn't right for you anyways. Do something memorable, but not over the top. People don't like it when someone has to try too hard. see you then!!!