I'm starting to think that you women don't really know what you want. Here is a great guy that is full of love waiting for someone to give it to but everyone seems not to want to take the chance. Life is full of chances and if you don't take any you are not really living. So I say take the chance and live life to the fullest!!!!
This page has been created for my best friend. He has trouble meeting woman and this site has worked for me. I met my wife on this site so I thought I’d try finding my friend someone. He does not know that I’m doing this but I see how unhappy he is being single and I wanted to help. He just does not know how to meet woman.
What can be said about my friend? I know that if I ever need him for anything he is there for me. Best example I can give for that is when my wife tore her ACL. I was out of the country because of work and my wife could not even go up or down stairs. Work needed to be done around the house that she could no longer do, one call to my friend and he was over to the house helping with anything she needed doing.
He’s smart, if you have ever watched The Big Bang Theory he would fit right in. A bit of a computer nerd and he does enjoy playing games, but not to a point that he won’t leave the house because he has to reach that next level. Any chance he can get to leave the house he normally takes it.
He does like to travel and has been to a few places around the world. Sometimes with work but for the most part just looking for someplace interesting to visit.
As a friend he is loyal to a fault and is the type of guy that would give you the shirt off his back if he thought it would help you in any way. I know this for a fact as I’ve seen him do it. He is generous and thoughtful and has told me that if I ever hit my wife I would live to regret it (chances are she would hit me and he’d just tell me to buck up).
He has a great memory for TV/Movie quotes that always keeps me entertained.
Most weekends he can be found out at his cabin, on the boat in the summer and on the sled in winter, or just out by the fire (both summer and winter). He does not have a dog but he is very much a dog person. Both our dogs love him and almost vibrate out of their skin when they see him.
Now why do you think a guy like this is single? Part of his problem is he does not make a great first impression and you have to see past the loud, opinionated person to see the teddy bear behind it. He gets very nervous and being loud and opinionated is his “safe” zone. I’ve long wondered why this is, I don’t even thing he knows he’s doing it. I would suggest a double date with me and my wife first as I can keep him calm to allow some of his true self to come out.
If you’re interested please contact me and I can get the two of you in toutch.
A note from my wife:
Ladies, this man is a catch!! You have to have a sense of humor and be able to give as good as you get with this one :) I met Chuck shortly after meeting my husband and true to as described he was a bit "in your face" loud. After not even a couple of hours, after he got to know me a bit better, he definitely warmed up and now he's like family. He is a complete softy with a definite sarcastic side and extremely generous and caring. As far as the type of women he would probably go for, I get the impression that he would probably really connect with someone who made him feel "needed" - IE he will hold doors for you, he will always carry your groceries into the house, and will probably be hurt if you wouldn't let him pay for dinner. I don't think he particularly cares about height, and I've never heard him express a preference for a particular hair color. He does like curves (my husband tells me he is a "boob man" - don't ever tell him we told you that though) but I get the impression that he might be put off by someone more on the heavy-set side. I know he would probably identify more with someone who enjoyed getting away from the city and bonfires as well as other general outdoor type activities. When we asked him if he would be open to dating someone with children we got what I would interpret as an undecided "sure" - my guess is it would depend on how many and their age ranges. Since there isn't an option to put "undecided sure" under the question of "Would you date someone who has kids?" in his profile we put "no" to be on the safe side (though as you can see, that's not 100% accurate and I can honestly see him having fun with kids). When asked if he might want kids of his own one day we got a similar type of answer in "I guess so" - I choose to interpret this as "with the right woman" because I just cannot see Chuck not wanting kids one day. Besides, his mother is going to be an AWESOME grandma :P
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Never liked the idea of a movie for a first date. Other people get mad when you try to talk during a movie. Meet for a coffee, dinner, game of pool. Any place that you two can get to know each other better.