I am looking for someone fun to hang out with and see where it leads. Grumps need not apply. Also, if all you can talk about is your penis, please move along. I'm not here for hooking up so if you're just interested in sex, I wish you well along your journey but don't stop here. If your pictures are 10 years old, please update them. I'm not interested in your past self, I'm interested in your current self. My pictures are all current. Finally, just be honest. Read that last sentence again. If you feel like you have to lie about something then maybe you shouldn't be on here. ***had to add this based on some recent experiences..please read on***
My social calendar sometimes far exceeds the boundaries of my ability to find a babysitter because I love to go out and do fun things. Recent nights out have included concerts, plays, girls' night, comedy shows, movies, happy hours and birthday celebrations. I love to be active and do crazy things like mud runs and Bay to Breakers but I am not an athletic build. I am definitely plus size and have been all my life so if you'd like to move on at this point please feel free. I love to read and am 10 books into my reading goal of 25 books for this year. I read a wide variety of genres. I'm ashamed to admit that I have an affinity for some bad reality TV but rarely get to watch it since I cancelled cable 2 years ago and don't miss it at all. I like to do corny family things (like pumpkin patches, the zoo, local festivals, the fair, etc.) but also enjoy grown ups only fun like occasional gambling trips, dancing, etc.
If my friends were to describe me they'd tell you that I have a funny and sarcastic sense of humor, that I'm direct in how I communicate (not everyone appreciates this) and that I'm intelligent, responsible and dependable. Once you're in my inner circle I'm ferociously loyal and will move mountains for you. My deal breakers in a relationship are dishonesty (if you lie and I catch you then I can't trust you), alcohol and drug abuse, and racial intolerance (my son is Caucasian and African American). Family is important to me and I adore my son. I would be open to considering more children but now that he's almost 9 and I'm older I would be content with just him. I'm not willing to relocate because he's in a great school and I have a great job. My views are liberal and I don't believe in organized religion although do believe in spirituality. I still believe love is possible. :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
As long as we can laugh and have a good time anything would be great. I'd love a nice dinner and a show at the Gallo or the opportunity to kick some butt at mini-golf. I'm a dork who would be up for taking a dance lesson or something else fun.