Not" let's go to the movies" , what a lame first date, I'd rather go somewhere we can sit across from each other and see one another. Also i feel speaking and getting to know each other is important on a first date. You don't do either at a movie. I prefer somewhere like a museum, or maybe out for lunch or coffee. Perhaps a walk in a place with nice views and or live music. I'm also up for going out for drinks on a first date,i think people have a likelihood of having true colors surface after a few drinks, and I'd much rather meet the real you on a first date then 6 or 8 dates in. I've been hurt with lies and also hurt others, it's something id rather not go thru again. So don't play games and neither will I. But whatever i would do for a first date would end up fun and a lasting memory.