Here is what I am looking for:
Stable individual who knows how to treat a lady.
Opens doors (I'm old fashioned in my thinking but not a prude by any means).
Someone who has free time for us to get to know each other.
I have a job which I really like and sometimes it is hard to get me away from it. But you should know I'm not after your money (nor should you be after mine because I'm not an ATM)
I am looking for someone to go out and have a good time with.
I will probably not message you first, I'm too shy for that and old fashioned plus I hate when someone clicks on the wants to meet button but then when I send a message they don't answer.
I expect to be able to take some time getting to know you before I call you or decide to meet up with you.( i.e.: messaging or email back and forth and I don't like to talk on the phone.)
I just would really like someone that I get that I cant wait to see them or hear their voice feeling.
I like bowling, playing pool, I like sports in moderation, football and racing.
So go ahead and send me a message and we can get to know each other and see where this goes.
The best first date is one where you can get to know the other person, this requires talking, so no movies or clubs with loud music( for a first date later it will be OK). I would say that drinks and possibly dinner, bowling, pool, something along those lines. I myself am up for surprises but I am not an outdoor kind of girl, my son is in cub scouts and that is enough outdoor action for me.