About Me
I'm single...never married..no kids...not dating anyone ...
Sense of humor required because I do tend to be rather playful at times... the more warped your sense of humor is, the better...Sarcasm is good too... So if you can't relate to some of my (lame) jokes or the method to my madness... then lighten up because I'm pretty laid back...
I do know when to be serious and I'm also goal-orientated... once I see the clear path, I do tend to dart for the finish line... I prefer to have structured plans in place but I also like to be spontaneous and remain quite flexible at all times...
I'm a classic pisces.. patient, quiet - never loud, perceptive, reasonable, flexible, highly sensitive, dreamy, mystical, articulate, avoids conflict, and desperately afraid of ridicule. I have zero tolerance for violence - physical or verbal... I deal with drama by simply walking away from it... I won't play those kinds of high-school games...
I live by the golden rule and seek someone who shows at least the same amount of respect towards others...
If you like making fun of others... then we probably are not a very good match...
If you can see the good in people instead of their imperfections, then we probably would be a good match...
I tend to have compassion and empathy towards others and I seek someone who views other people the same way... (without being outright gullible)...
I view challenges in life as an oppurtunity for growth...
I feel somewhat guilty seeking a relationship when my present life can be so busy that I barely have time to date... so I'm basically looking for someone who can understand how complicated life can be at times and find time that works for both of us and have a good time together... preferably doing something fun that we both can enjoy... friends first... You have to touch my heart before you can jump in my bed...
I am a one-woman man (loyal, trustworthy and above all brutally honest)... and will easily prove that to you by the choices I decide to make... give me the chance to show you how I really feel about you.. (actions speak louder than words - they always have and always will)... and of course.. this works both ways as well... :)
good luck to all and thank you for viewing my profile :)
"secret stuff about me"... hehehe... ---> http://www.buzztime.com/profile?pid=220404
First Date
This is negotiable...
I'm interested the most to those that are interested in me...
Ultimately I seek to find someone where we are both comfortable simply being ourselves, we get along great and then grow close enough to share even our most secret desires...
I want the fairy tale too but I also realize it starts with a simple "Hello"....
So if I send you a simple "Hi" or "Hello" in a message...it's just my way of expressing interest in you (by overcoming my extremely shy nature)... And this simple approach tends to weed out the ones who are either too lazy to say hi..or are shallow in thinking that I'm too lazy to include my resume/life story in my first message/email.. lol
I also realize that there are tons of "desperate" men on here that keep your mail box filled and I won't be one of them... if you are interested in me...please send me a message... even if it is a short question or two... I promise that I wont take it the wrong way if you send me the first message... in fact... I will be impressed by your initiative... and if you have read this far... then maybe there are some that really do read profiles... thank you for checking me out... and good luck in your fishing adventures...
By the way, I understand that you are busy and I don't want to be another "job" for you. I want to be your harbor at the end of the day, your safe place, your companion, your friend, your lover, your champion and your inspiration to be your best self.
to be continued...
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