I believe in the philosophy "if its meant to be, it will happen". not to say that I wont look for opportunities and open the door if one stands in my path; only, that I will not be "butt-hurt" if an opportunity turns out to be a stepping stone toward an eye-opening revelation. Every experience life throws at us has something to learn from (whether we learn it now or later). I will do my best to keep an open mind when opportunities turn into what others call fails or dead-ends. Life is a journey, one I plan to keep on trekking, until I pass-out and wake up somewhere new, odd and scary, then pick up my ass and keep on going!
I am by no means a perfect person, and have no desire to live at such an expectation. I have a desire to live life expecting to enjoy what life offers, even if that means looking in unexpected places. Hell, I am not even sure what that means! Damn it, I will find out what that means! I guess I am trying to say that I keep reminding myself daily "if you find yourself thinking over something too much. STOP! its simple, either you want or you don't. make up your damn mind and do what YOU WANT TO ****ING DO!!". (its so nice to be able to do that these days.... ha!!)
So, there, a little something more about me.... take it or leave it! ;)
I'd like to hear from you if....
You can laugh at yourself, ooze positive energy, have a sense of humor, have your own place and car, have great personal hygiene (yep, I gotta put this in there- think what you want, its necessary, believe me), like animals, you want a woman companion to hangout with, etc!
... And live in Salem area... It just doesn't work with my schedule to coordinate time and expense going to/from PDX or Corvallis.
I am looking to go on dates (not hook up) AND if the chemistry is all encompassing, I would consider a relationship!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A first date must be in a public place. Not at your place.
I'd be impressed with creativity! I"m up for doing something fun! Doesnt even have to be "expensive". LOL