hi, hobbies, goals, aspirations, uniqueness and music. what a recipe for disaster...lol. here comes the slow part in no particular order...i enjoy enjoying myself. i like smart people and conversation. i'm not saying that we are discussing high brow subjects but if we are discussing anything, let it be with some intelligence, humor, and humility. i like to people watch and sometimes be people watched. i work a lot. i drive a shitty civic for the gas mileage since i have a good sized commute. i was in the submarine force, retired. i have a little intelligence, a little humor, humility, anywhere from ugly to good looks (of course it depends upon the reviewer). i think that i am self aware. i like alot of different types of music but i can't remember or really hear lyrics in songs without great effort. singers can be singing about the most disastrous and disgusting things and if the beat is good i will never know it...sad i know. i can find songs and singers that i don't like in every genre but i think that i listen primarily to r and b based music.
hey now! i'm here to date a bit. have a lunch, a drink, a dinner, make a friend. i'm here to meet people. i'm not opposed to sex whatsoever but i am not going to try to get into your panties just because i drank coffee with you or shared a meal, if i purchased it or not. i do date others. i just want to take my time and do things that i didn't do in the past. i'm not needing to pitch my rod and toss my line in every fishing hole even if there are 'plenty of fish'.
additionally, i am in the Newport, RI area most days during the work week and in CT all other times, generally...
i like anything that will allow us to learn about one another. somewhere to have a conversation. i can do it sitting, standing or jogging, if you'd rather.