I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A PEN PAL. The daily back and forth with the how are you, how was your day, how was your weekend, how are you feeling...IS BORING. If there is genuine interest, let's have a conversation, plan to meet, and go from there. A little cheat sheet...small talk makes me want to jump off a cliff.
I enjoy movies, concerts (Jazz, R&B, some Pop, Reggae, and Soft Rock), festivals, traveling, books, stand-up comedy, karaoke (I don't sing), good food, sweet wine, and a lot of laughter. I watch basketball, football, and baseball. Laker Girl...Raider Girl...USC Football, Dogers...win, lose, or draw. Refrain from the Raider jokes unless you want problems ;)) I also catch UFC fights when I get a chance. Don't laugh, but I've attended PBR bull riding before, and it's a good time!
If you smoke cigarettes, lack the ability to effectively communicate, and/or disrespects people...even if you're nice to me....I can't. Half a job or no job or business, no car, barely have a place to live, child support for 3 kids to 3 different women...WHY ARE YOU EVEN TRYING TO DATE?!?!
Some of the conversations I've had with people from this site has led me to believe that you're not taking care of your mental health. If you're having a hard time healing, please go lay on the leather couch. There is no shame in it. Become a whole, emotionally healed person with something to offer other than anger, hurt, and frustration. That was my PSA for the day.