READ THIS FIRST BEFORE YOU READ ANYTHING ELSE OR CONTACT ME.
If you play games, lie, can't handle I have son full time who's not an adult, drink way too much that you're trashed everyday, arent over your ex, like to serial date, can't handle me not living next door, can't handle a guy who's not an ***hole, cheater, or abuser, want a penpal or **** buddy, want to use anything for an excuse besides the truth, treat guys like shit, or aren't emotionally available please recluse yourself and DO NOT contact me. who Now if you passed this little pre-
Test by all means read on. Also if you write & I don't respond I'm NOT interested. We all like what we like.
First of all I am a single father who has raised my son for the last 9 years. He is 13 now. This is and always will bebe a package deal. If you can't do that then look elsewhere as he comess first even before me. Now if you can deal with that let me tell.you about meme. I'll warn you I am intense.....passionate.....emotional.....hopeless.romantic......I can be direct and brash but not hurtful. I am strong but I need someone.to save me every once in awhile. I am no one type. I'm a hodge podge....man of many parts.....i HAD long hair but it's short nownow...I have tattoos and I sometimes wear earrings. I can look like a biker or redneck and not afraid to get my hands dirty. I love the outdoors and animals. Kids are my life. I am also a prep and like to dress nice as I feel good wearing a suit and tie. I have been many places and done many things to include serving my country for 8 years. I have lived all over the country and I have traveled the world. I am educated with a Master's degree but I am down to earth and humble. I love to laugh and I am loyal to those I love. I'll warn you now I am different and it takes a certain woman.to.handle.me. If that's you then by all means say hello.
"The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more. It plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds"
UDATE: In the time since I posted my profile I have been asked what type of woman takes to handle me or I am looking for. Well to me it's simple......
First she will capture my eyes when they are first laid upon her. She will take my breathe away, not because of what she is, but rather who she is. My mind will race with thoughts of her until the next time I hear her voice or gaze upon her face. My skin will long the closeness of her touch and the safety of her embrace. She will be my partner, friend, and lover. I will share my laughs, my tears, my fears, my triumphs, all the while giving her every fiber within my being that makes up me. Life will be better because she is there and the worst of days will be sheltered by her arms which will tell me that it will be okay and we will get through hand in hand. We will love each other's flaws, mistakes, failures, and disapointments. She will be first person that comes to mind when I'm proud, happy, hurt, and ashamed. She will be last voice I hear, last sight I see before I drift off to sleep as I attempt to crawl under her skin because I can not be close enough. I will love her like no other and although I can live without her I don't want to live without her as her absence would make me feel lost like a ship at sea with no shoreline in sight because she is my safe harbor. She will be my best friend, my companion, and my princess. She will challenge me beyond my limits. I willwill know her when she comes for she won't have to said a word as she captures all of the man I am. That's who she is and will always be.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My first date is simple. I don't do cliche. I'd prefer a nice walk or getting a cup of coffee while we talk and learn about each other. I want to be comfortable to enjoy dinner or a movie etc.