Here I am, I'm a big, bold, beautiful, one man kind of woman. I'm funny, creative, honest, loving, and passionate. I'm creative I can sew anything and probably have. I like the challenge of creating something. I enjoy spoiling the people I care about. I like learning about and enjoying the world.
While I can be content alone, I much prefer to have someone special in my life, someone to spoil, to confide in the explore with. I love holding hands, kissing,(and other things).
WHO I"VE BEEN ... a farm girl, a wife,a single mom, a retail clerk, a seamstress, ran a business, an EMT and a dispatcher/Officer,a friend, a lover, divorcee, and a widow.
WHAT I'VE LEARNED... Life ain't easy--but it is better than the alternative.
I can't change people only how I interact with them.
To deal with the bad times and grab a hold of the good.
Laughter is so very important, but is so much better shared.
Take care of the pennies and the nickels will take care of
To treat people with kindness and respect, I usually get
it back, if I don't I probably don't need them in my life.
Youth and beauty while interesting, can't compare with
maturity grace and wisdom.
To treasure the people I care about, life can change in a
WHO I AM NOW... a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, who gives and expects honesty. I care about people. I try to find joy in my world everyday. I enjoy and crave intimacy.
WHO AM I LOOKING FOR...Someone who will add to my life, share in the good and the bad. Someone who will enjoy my strengths and overlook my weaknesses. Someone who enjoys the world around him. Some one who is passionate, kind and caring. Someone who wants to laugh with me.
PS.....I guess it didn't address it strongly enough, honesty is extremely important to me. If you can't be honest don't waste my time.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A first date, probably go someplace fairly quiet where we might get a bite to eat and spend some time just talking and getting to know one another. Now if that goes well I have a lot of interests, but I have found that the activity is not nearly as important as the person you are sharing it with. I can be quite content with pizza and a movie at home in our slippers, or a day at the flea market, I've been know to fish, (I can bait my own hook, but you can take the cats off). Sometimes it nice to plan ahead for that really special event but on the other hand it can also make memories to just take off for the day and drive to something strikes our fancy.