My ideal first date is something simple like a walk down a nice trail to look at the changing leaves or down a dirt road talking and looking for agates or around a lake then stop for a picnic. Coffee shop, brunch somewhere. Take out if I'm comfortable enough after talking to that person enough. Drinks at the bar are to loud and I want to hear what your saying and not have people listening in. I guess id like the next personI go on a date with to be the last person. I have 3 kids along with myself to think about how having you a part of my life will affect us.