Let's make sure that this isn't a waste of your time. Do you want a man that knows where he is going and how to get there? Do you want to have loads of fun on the ride there? Do you know how to be real? I have high standards for my life and anyone I include in it so if you can answer yes to those questions as well as you have confidence, intelligence, ambition, and you are genuinely liked by people then great! Every one else can move on... With that said I would invite anyone who thinks they have something special to offer to close the door to judging and the past and embrace the new possibilities that are just ahead.