Please read my whole profile and if you make it to the end and are still interested leave me a message ! I am honest, up front, and want no BS ............just sayin !
Hello there, I am looking for the real deal, no games, no drama , no cheaters, liars or users, no one night stands or one time hook ups. I don't want just a friend with benefits. I am looking for my best friend, lover, and partner in crime ! I like to have fun and enjoy life. Love my family, 2 grown kids, a daughter in law, and 4 wonderful grandkids, and lets not leave out the dog, he is my child too. I love spending time with my family we are all very close. Cookouts, bonfires, going to the lake, good music, good movies, like going out but just as content to stay in with the right person. It's not so much about what you are doing as long and you enjoy who you are doing it with. I am an independent woman, and can take care of myself so I am not looking for a sugar daddy. I was married a long time, and just recently ended a 6 year relationship. So starting over again, Time to move on. Not a bar fly so trying this to meet new people. Good Luck !
UPDATE: I am about over this, not looking to be a "hook up" for sex, don't need anybody to move in, don't want to date out of state .......
If you are looking for a real person then send me a message
MY THOUGHTS ON RELATIONSHIPS:
I believe in the Happily Ever After but I also realize it takes 2 people to make that happen and it is something that both people have to work at to maintain. It starts with a friendship because you need to genuinely like that person and enjoy being with them, chemistry is great but without the friendship, it will fade.
Being able to relax and be myself, have fun together and laughter, lots of laughter. When were apart just the thought of you will make me smile, and when I am not there you miss me a little and wonder how I am. Little things go a long way, thoughtfulness is important, it is not what something costs but rather the thought put into it for the person. It feels good to know that someone really took time to make your day a bit better just by being thoughtful. Trust and respect go hand in hand . if you can't believe in your partner or respect them then there is no point. I treat others how I want to be treated. I am honest and need someone to be honest with me. I don't cheat cause I am not built like that , I just don't believe in hurting someone like that, I would rather someone come to me and break up with me BEFORE they cheat. It still hurts but at least it allows for their to still be a friendship later on, and like I said there is no good reason to hurt someone like that. It also affects more people than the couple, it destroys families and other people get caught in the fallout. I don't lie, it is too much work LOL
easier to just be honest and not have to worry about remembering the lie, besides lies always come back to haunt you. It always comes out eventually, so just better to be honest. But if I look stupid in my outfit or have a bad hairdo you can let me know tactfully so I don't make a fool out of myself LOL like saying baby I really like it when you wear your hair like this or you know what I think this other outfit looks much sexier on you LOL , it's all in the delivery LOL but I'm sure you get that. I like to kiss and cuddle and feel the love. I will be eager to see you when you come in and your arms will feel empty when I am not in them.
And of course I will want to tell you everything about my day and want to know all about yours. being able to just talk and talk and enjoy eachother. I don't think that this is a fantasy or just a dream. I believe that it is how it supposed to be, I have witnessed this in my family more than once. Most everyone in my family, parents, siblings, aunts, uncles and cousins has married for life and stayed married. There have only been 5 divorces in all of my family. So i have seen it work. it is possible ! One day I will find my Happily Ever After !
UPDATE: It just amazes me the amount of men that send a message but are only interested in hooking up and having sex without meeting first or even having a conversation. All of of them have listed that they are looking for a relationship .... but really how many men would want a relationship with someone that would just jump into bed with someone the minute they meet them! SO I WILL ASK YOU if all you want is a quick hookup for sex DO NOT MESSAGE ME. READ MY PROFILE ......... if after reading it all you are still interested then send me a message and we will talk and go from there ....... I don't just want a chat buddy either but I do think you should know someone a little bit before you give it all away ....... lets chat here and then exchange phone # talk to each other and if there is something there .... we will meet..... no expectations of sex or anything else .... then if there is a spark we will just let things happen and have fun along the way. I do love all the aspects of the physical relationship but I need to know someone first and if you cannot respect that ........well then don't bother me !
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Anything fun ! nice dinner with good conversation , putt putt golf , bowling , karoke, riding on the back of your Harley, LOL Just what ever sounds good at the time !