When there are other options that we feel that is hopeless in finding our mates, we tend to reach out to online dating. I've tried this online dating a few times before and haven't seem to have had any luck. Trying my luck again here on POF. I've been skeptical to join this due to all the stuff I've heard that goes along with this site. Still I am optimistic and wanted to give it a shot.
I have heard some crazy things that men have said to women and my thoughts is does it take someone to be online to say derogatory, perverted and other things than being face to face? We are all here in hopes to finding love, so why must we play games with one another?
I question if we are all here to really seek a mate? What happened to love like how our parents and grandparents love one another? I still carry and believe in the old fashion ways of a relationship. Relationships to me is work. Work between two people who cares about each other. Not giving up so quickly on one another. Through trust, communication, support I feel are the top key ingredients in keeping a relationship alive.
I am an active person whom likes to do various spontaneous things. From camping, hiking, traveling to bungee jumping, sky diving, paint balling to movies, cooking. there's so many things you can do to enjoy and love life more, but it's always better with that someone special. To experience and make new memories.
maybe I am crazy, but I still have hopes in finding someone special, growing old with them and being able to sit around with our family.