I am a divorced mother of two older children who are very busy with their own lives, which means I have much more "me" time. I work hard all week and believe in having some fun on the weekends. I love love love anything outdoors! Am a bit of a boat-aholic (so-to-speak). I would rather be on or near a lake, river or ocean fishing or swimming or just lounging in my free time. I love going to a live band or concert and play tons of background music while mearly cleaning house, or just washing my car.. I am very down to earth and probably a bit of a Tom-boy! LOL - at least that's what my kids and friends say... Although I can dress up and be fancy when it is necessary I just prefer casual. I am wise enough to know that being happy with your partner/companion does not always mean being "perfect"... It's being smart and wise enough to know when to let go of the little, minor imperfections we all carry (such as a toilet seat up or down, and/or things like a dish in or out of the sink, etc.) and look at the big picture! No one is "perfect" and no love is either... One day at a time leads to a lifetime!!! Nothing ventured, nothing gained right? P.S. - Please, take the actual time to read my profile so you will see it says "looking for a relationship" - yes, that means being friends and having fun--- BUT certainly NOT CASUAL and/or "friends with benefits" - Despite my outgoing personality, and fun side, I actually do live by a higher standard... i am VERY OLD SCHOOL.... You will either respect and appreciate that, or move on! Take care and "happy fishing!"